How do I come out to my parents?
WhisperFade
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Apr 1, 2017
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There is no one way to come out to your parents. Some people choose to write letters or emails, some choose to sit down together and just say it. None of the options are right or wrong, you just have to choose what makes you feel safe and most comfortable.
Anonymous
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Apr 5, 2017
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There is no other way to come out to parents but to straight up confront them. There are many kinds of parents in the world and the common thing is the love they have for their children. Some parents may be extremely understanding but some might take time but it is always better to confront them sooner than later. Parents always understand, it might take time but they do.
Anonymous
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Apr 9, 2017
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Remember that your safety is priority! If it will be unsafe for you to come out, you don't have to. But, as long as it's safe, and you want to, go for it! Just start a conversation on the topic and go from there. Maybe start with "Have you ever thought you were anything other than straight?" Good luck!!
Ency
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Apr 14, 2017
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Only come out to your parents once you have fully come out to yourself. Only come out when you accept yourself and cant be shaken by what anyone else thinks. Own it when you come out sit them down, (do it after dinner people are more accepting then) and just tell them that your attracted to the sex your attracted to. Let them know that you love them but that this is who you are.
Anonymous
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Apr 15, 2017
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Only ever come out if you're sure that you would be safe to do so. If you're positive that it's safe to come out, do so in a calm and simple manner. Sit them down and tell them your sexuality or gender, and explain it to them if needed.
Proactiveandre
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Apr 20, 2017
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If you're still living with your parents or relying on them for financial support, you might want to make sure your parents are accepting of LGBTQ+ people. You can do this by talking about LGBTQ+ people in the media. (Ex: did you hear that Ellen and her Portia...........) (Hey did you know that the other day, Caitlyn Jenner............) this could help you see how they might react. If you think your parents will not be accepting and you still rely on them, either refrain from coming out yet, or be sure to have a safe place to go after coming out. Your security is the #1 priority.
If you have trouble facing your parents one on one or if you feel they will cut you off with questions before you've explained, a letter can be very effective. It makes sure your message gets across uninterrupted, and it gives your reader time to think of a good reply. That's what I did with my parents, and I think it stopped them from making some comments in the moment that they would've regretted later on.
EIise
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Apr 22, 2017
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Coming out is always a difficult thing, first thing; be sure you'll be safe if you're come out, if you think your parents will be angry and will reject you, maybe you wait.
if you're safe, then it is great! So to tell them, the easiest way is basically to say "I'm gay" in the middle of the dinner or something like that. Sure you can have some complicated strategy to tell them but.... In my opinion just tell them like that. Good luck ♥
Cutetortoise02
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Apr 28, 2017
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I came out just like that straight forward with no strings attached. I explained and they understood. But don't feel rushed the only one rushing you is yourself. So tell them in your own time and keep it simple.
Xstitcher
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May 23, 2017
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It is entirely dependant on your relationship with them and how understanding you feel they will be. Many people come out and find their families are supportive and embrace them. It is important to remember there is no pressure to 'come out' and you can do it in your own time when you feel ready. If you think your parents would react negatively remember you are not alone and many people will be here to support you.
hyacinthw
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May 24, 2017
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Personally, I came out by writing a letter. I'm a writer, so it was easiest for me to get everything across the way I wanted that way. But do whatever seems right for you.
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