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How can you tell if you are a boy or a girl, or something else entirely?

Profile: boo
boo on Jul 9, 2015
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If you are not comfortable with your gender or if you you do not have the gender in reality from your brain, it means that you are not satisfied with your gender, you want to be another gender. The gender that you want to be, or the gender in your brain is what you are.
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Profile: heavenTouch21
heavenTouch21 on Jul 9, 2015
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The gender issue isn't black and white, we have all the spectrum of colours. Try to find a place where you find the most comfortable.
Profile: TransMan1115
TransMan1115 on Jul 9, 2015
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Just ask, pull the person aside, don't make it public. And also don't judge just based on appereance
Profile: RIPGwenStacy11
RIPGwenStacy11 on Jul 10, 2015
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Only you can answer this question. You don't HAVE to identify with ANYTHING. If you feel like you are something, anything, or nothing. Then that is what you are.
Profile: MusicLife
MusicLife on Jul 10, 2015
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Base on there position in a situation certain things happen or feel for a girl boy lgbt their are mostly in a situation commonly to their gender
Profile: Randomnesseverywhere22
Randomnesseverywhere22 on Jul 10, 2015
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You can tell what gender you are by how you feel about life, and how you feel about yourself, it's not looks it's a mind thing
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 10, 2015
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Your gender is decided by what you feel comfortable identifying as, not by whats between our legs. If you were born a girl, but you feel like a boy, then you can identify as a boy.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jul 11, 2015
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It takes time to decide what gender you are and there are many different genders you could identify as. Take time and think about it.
Profile: miraclebaby
miraclebaby on Jul 11, 2015
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go on instinct, and don't let society influence you. you may not know right away but sometime it'll hit you and you'll know
Profile: tranquilEagle75
tranquilEagle75 on Jul 11, 2015
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A good way to figure this out is by experimenting with pronoun usage, clothing, and the way that identifying as another gender makes you feel. If it makes you feel comfortable/safe/at ease to identify as another gender, that's a good indication that you are, but don't feel weird about changing your gender/pronouns all the time - it's a process.
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