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How can I support my friend who is transgender?

Profile: comfortableSoul80
comfortableSoul80 on Aug 14, 2017
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Use the right pronouns and name! But there may be times where it's safer to not use them, so just ask. Also make sure they know you have their back and will support them the whole way.
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Anonymous on Nov 14, 2017
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Just act normal around them as tough you would a normal friend. They are no different in personality they might just be discovering who they are. If they are being bullied though, stand up for them, support them as they are still your friend just with an extra special bit on the side. :)
Profile: radiantFireworks51
radiantFireworks51 on Feb 12, 2018
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1. Don’t treat them any differently 2. Stand up for them 3. Just be a good friend as tho they weren’t transgender and just always be there for them 4. If they get surgery or hormones then maybe go with them to appointments
Profile: dreamSpace91
dreamSpace91 on Mar 19, 2018
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Good idea. Give him a gift like make up. Support him by feelings and discuss with him.
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Anonymous on Aug 13, 2018
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learn about trans struggles, listen to what your friend says about the issues their going through, be kind and understanding, and basically just try to educate yourself as much as possible
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Anonymous on Dec 18, 2018
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One way you can support your transgender friend is to respect their pronouns. They are going through a tough time, especially with all of their new thoughts and hard times. Simply respecting their pronouns and their new name (if they have one) can mean a lot to them. Another way you can support them is to be there to help them if they need it. Just like any friend they need moral support and a good group of friends to help them with everything. You can make sure they understand that you are there for them by reassuring them that you are there for them.
Profile: Aayla
Aayla on Jun 10, 2019
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Just be there for you friend, make sure they know you're there for them, encourage them to open up about their feelings, hopes and worries, but without pushing them. And of course, use the pronouns and the name of their choice. Having someone by our side already makes all the difference in the world!
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Anonymous on May 11, 2020
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I think the best thing you can do to support your friend is treating them normally. Use the right name and pronouns and just be their friend. If you make mistakes with pronouns or names at first that's okay, it happens but work hard to get them right. Use the right pronouns even when they're not there and don't always say their transgender or stuff like that. If they're struggling with dysphoria remind them they're valid and you love them. Often that helps a lot. I'm sure you're going to do great, and wish the best for you and your friend. Have a nice day!
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Anonymous on Jan 12, 2021
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Some easy steps to take to support a transgender friend are to simply use their chosen name and the correct pronouns, and to correct others if(/when) they use the wrong name/pronouns. One of the best ways of supporting your friend is to simply stand by their side, as a friend, regardless of their gender-identity. A small, but almost certainly appreciated, step is to educate yourself on the matter. It won't take long, and it will really be worth it. Remember, though, that even if you do research on the topic, your friend is still the expert and they know best how they feel. Don't try to undermine their experiences; if something bothers them, it bothers them. (E.g. your friend is upset about someone misgendering them. Don't tell them it was probably a misunderstanding or that people aren't used to using the correct pronouns. Simply listening can be enough.) So, basically respect their identity and be a friend, just as you've always been.
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