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How can I know my sexuality?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 16, 2016
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At first, you have to know that you have all time you need for it. nobody is waiting for an answer at the moment. just take a deep breath and listen to your inner voice, because that is the only thing that matters. All in all there is no easy solution, you have to listen to yourself and some day you will find out. do what you like to do. Do what keeps you happy and then you will find your way.
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Profile: digitalwitness
digitalwitness on Feb 22, 2016
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You can try to take the Kinsey scale test, although it's not always accurate. I would suggest to just experiment. Or ask yourself honestly, who are you attracted to? You can also try to read some articles about sexuality and talk to LGBTQ+ people. Good luck!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Jun 21, 2016
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Experiment, it is possible to change your sexuality in the future. Do not keep yourself locked up because you are too scared to try new things.
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It takes lots of trial and error to fully understand your sexuality. And it's perfectly fine if you identify as one thing before finally realizing what your sexuality is :)
Profile: MelodySue
MelodySue on Nov 6, 2017
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Sexuality is something someone can only feel for themself. You can never know until you do. For some, the journey to knowing is much easier than it is for others. Some people have know their entire life; others wait a long time to know. One of the most risky things one can do is to experiment. It's helpful for learning your sexuality, but it can mess with emotions. I stand by the saying "to each their own." As long as you figure it out at your own pace and the way you want to, then you're doing wonderfully.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 19, 2018
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while you go though puberty you will start noticing changes on how you feel and the older you get the more you will come to understand your sexuality
Profile: Sandra98
Sandra98 on Apr 23, 2018
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It's all about your feelings towards other genders. As you know there is many sexualities. If you have feelings towards opposite sex then you're heterosexual. If you have feelings towards same sex then you're homosexual. If you have feelings towards both sexes then you're bisexual. Or you don't need to have any feelings at all then you're asexual. There is more sexualites like demisexual, pansexual etc etc. ;)
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 19, 2019
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Figuring out your sexuality can be very hard and can take a long time. The first thing you should know is that you should not try to rush into this, and don't be too upset if you're feeling confused or unsure. Think about who you currently like, and who you've liked in the past. Think about who you've dated or wanted to date. Are they mainly the same gender as you? Are they mainly the opposite gender? Does it not really matter to you? Here's a list of basic terminology that might help. Read through and see if anything fits. Heterosexual - attraction to the opposite gender Homosexual - attraction to the same gender Bisexual - attraction to many genders (not just 2!) Pansexual - attraction to all genders or regardless of gender (gender does not matter) Hopefully this can help somewhat!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 19, 2021
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I will give you a brief summary about the sexualities and how you know. Gay - Strictly attracted to MEN. Lesbian - Strictly attracted to WOMEN. Bisexual - Attraction to both men and women, can have a preference. Pansexual - Attraction to anybody regardless of gender. Omnisexual - Attraction to anybody WITH a preference. I recommend reading the copy of "Am I a Lesbian" master doc, it will really help you in finding what you are attracted to. It's about 30 pages but it goes really in-depth with what you may be experiencing. Remember, questioning is 100% okay and valid. If you need help, do not be afraid to ask questions.
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