How can I figure out if I am bisexual, or if I am just going through a phase?
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Updated: Jul 12, 2024
positiveWhisper24
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Mar 13, 2015
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If you are sexually attracted to both males and females, then you are bisexual. It doesn't have to be equal attraction to both - you could be 80% into guys and only 20% into girls, that's okay. Also, there's a difference between being sexually attracted to both sexes and romantically attracted to both sexes. Some bisexual people are only interested in romantic relationships with one of the sexes, but that doesn't change the fact that they are bisexual. For some people, sexuality changes as they grow in life - that is okay too.
Anonymous
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Mar 1, 2016
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Well, for me, I pictured it as, who would I see myself with long-term. Short term, I thought I was bi, because I would feel attraction to males and females, but long term, I could only see myself with a man. Usually, everyone finds out in different ways. Just keep going through it, you'll find your answer eventually.
YourBestFriendRyan
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Dec 7, 2015
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You don't have to figure anything out. If you are interested in boys and girls right now, then you're bisexual right now. Sexuality is fluid and can change over time, whether it's a "phase" or not.
PoetaSinVersos
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Apr 9, 2015
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Sexuality isn't something static! It goes changing with you as you grow up. You can change your sexuality (it isn't your choice, though, it just changes). If you NOW feel bisexual, you might be. If tomorrow you feel heterosexual let it be! And if you ever feel asexual or homosexual, demisexual or whatever, it is what should be. Sexuality is made out from phases, so don't be afraid to be through one of them! And whenever someone tells you "it's just a phase", turn out and tell them: "Yeah, it's a phase, but I don't know how many time it will last!".
dadacult
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Sep 21, 2015
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you don't need to put a label on yourself. it's even better if you don't, actually... it gives you freedom.
Anonymous
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Dec 8, 2017
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Here are some signs you are bisexual.
You almost kissed the same sex
You had a crush on someone of the same sex even if it was a short amount of time
You told someone you are sexually confused
You make jokes you are bisexual
You said you bisexual
You told someone of the same sex you were going to kiss them
These are scientifically proven. THIS IS NOT FAKE! If you have most of these signs you have a 99% chance of being Gay or Bisexual
Kai1243
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Apr 22, 2015
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Unfortunately, sometimes it will take you a while to truly realize how you feel. Just keep in mind, it's perfectly okay to question who you are and how you really feel, and it may certainly take time. Give yourself as much time as you need to figure yourself out, and eventually it'll all fall into place. And remember, those who support you will always love you for who you are, regardless of what you discover or identify as.
FruityHeaven97
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May 15, 2017
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Do you feel sexual attraction toward both genders? If this is the case, you are most probably bisexual. Personally, I am a bisexual female but I am more attracted to men and have only every had one same sex relationship, that does not count as a phase. Sexual attraction does not need to be even for you to be bisexual.
GregE17
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Jul 12, 2016
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Time will tell, Sexuality is a fluid concept which can change at any time. No labels are required.
Breathedani
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May 15, 2015
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The only true way to know if you are bisexual or just going through a phase is to experiment. Try new things and meet new people. Time will help you figure things out, and remember to be true to yourself.
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