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Profile: thelittleprinces
thelittleprinces on Apr 14, 2018
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Explain it to them when all is calm and peaceful and nothing is on their minds! Make sure to clear all stereotypes and put kindly as possible and always make them known that they can always check on with you for doubts!
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 25, 2018
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Be honest. That's truly the best advice I can give you. explain how you feel as yourself, as specifically as possible. If you can, explain why you feel the way you do. Try to "put yourself in their shoes," or consider how they would best understand it. It can also help to research online about the science behind homosexuality or even non-scientific ideas that are reputable.
Profile: kindsoul129
kindsoul129 on Apr 25, 2018
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There is no right or wrong way - just a way that feels right for you. Starting with common ground can help - maybe you all know someone in the LGBTQ community, or maybe you want to start talking about attraction and love and what type of people you feel attracted to. You don't need to educate your parents and you aren't responsible for how they react. Coming out is a big deal to many people so you may want an ally you can call after for support or seek counselling. Remember that parents can be shocked or concerned and anxiety can often drive a negative response. Often things can settle down over time as they accept and understand what you've disclosed.
Profile: sunnyForest44
sunnyForest44 on Apr 28, 2018
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You can tell them that you are attracted to people of the same sex and that you have decided to tell them how you feel because you trust them to know.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 13, 2018
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Sometimes very simple terms is the easiest, especially for people who don't really understand the concept. Basically describe as what they are used to, but with people of the same gender. It's exactly the same story, just with different characters.
Profile: ephender
ephender on May 16, 2018
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This is a hard one- one that doesn't really have a universal answer. If your goal is to explain homosexuality for the purpose of just explaining sexuality- you can direct them to the American Psychological Association or the American Psychiatric Association to show that homosexual is a natural variant of human sexuality. In contrast, if this is about "coming out". You have to always prioritize your safety. As a queer person- you will always be "coming out" for the rest of your life- at work, at school, etc. But WHEN and HOW you do it is YOUR choice. I recommend coming out ONLY if you feel as though it is safe to do. Have a back up plan incase things do not go as you would like them. Join our LGBT support group, or our community group for inspiration and ideas. Most of all- be proud who you are- because you are special- you have self worth- you matter. GOOD LUCK!
Profile: NiyahBaptiste
NiyahBaptiste on Jun 5, 2018
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Explain it in the way that makes the most sense to you, Explain how its not a choice its not an option its natural. That its as natural as taking your first breath. You persay might not know at the time that you are a Homosexual but its there and when you finally do decide to come out, just try to express that its not a choice its something thats always inside of you, like being good at basketball; for some thats just something they themselves are good at, for others they just arnt. Thats homosexuality its a sexual preference that is deeply rooted inside a person, its a romantic attraction, sexual attraction or sexual behavior between members of the same sex or gender. And then just leave it at that.
Profile: calmingSalamander18
calmingSalamander18 on Jun 7, 2018
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This can seem daunting and a difficult subject to approach. I've had to go through similar things with my own parents and it depends on how open and accepting they are. If you know that they will be ok with it then I would suggest trying to open a discussion with them about it - maybe bring up a local pride event in a near town? If you think they could be less accepting then test the waters - do you know anyone lgbt in real life or on tv? If so try mentioning that to them at dinner or in the car. Gage their reaction - if they don't seem to mind then maybe it's worth trying to open a discussion. Remember, though, that your safety always comes first: do not risk your safety!! I wish you luck and I hope that it all turns out ok - it has with my family so there is always hope.
Profile: AlexanderReed
AlexanderReed on Jun 7, 2018
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There's many ways to come out or explain homosexuality to people. You could sit them down and have a conversation or maybe even write a letter. You can try to say something along the lines of "Mom or Dad or both, I want to explain something to you. It's something you may have a hard time understanding and that is why I'm going to try to explain to the best of my ability. Homosexuality is something that's gotten more attention over the years. It's basiclaly just feeling love to the same gender. It's just like heterosexuality, nothin is wrong with it, we just feel feelings towards the same gender versus the other gender. So I'm a boy or girl and I'm attracted to a boy or girl. Try to explain it in a very simple way. I hope I could help. 😊 Good luck,
Profile: AllRainbowsAreMagic
AllRainbowsAreMagic on Jun 9, 2018
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You just have to let them know. If they don't understand, don't worry. Explain what you feel, and why. They might be sceptical at first, but they should support you.
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