How can I come out to my dad if he is homophobic?
AlittleBitOfHope17
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Jul 2, 2019
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it all depends on if you'll be safe after you do. Is now the right time? Would a safer option be to wait until you move out? What is your plan if the worst does happen? Do you have the number for helplines? Can you go and stay with extended family or close a friend if you need some space? Your safety and well-being must always come first. Remember to have outside support and that you're not alone. He might try to shame you but you have to remember your sexuality and shame have no place together. Your sexuality is normal and there is nothing wrong or bad about loving who you want to love.
Aayla
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Oct 21, 2019
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It all depends on your relationship with him. However, you may want to get the support of other family members first, so you'll be sure there will be someone there for you however things go. You could also ask someone supportive to be present in that moment. Or if you're too nervous, you could consider writing a coming out letter. Explain as openly as you can how you started questioning, what it feels to be like you, what it would mean for you to have him by his side no matter what. Make sure to ask him why he has prejudice about it and discuss it with him as calmly as possible. Maybe he will give you a chance and try to understand you!
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