How can I be sure of my sexuality?

Sexuality is one of the most fluid things in our existence, so believing that you need a label for it can be potentially damaging. If you are someone who feels a need for the sureness of some label, I'd just suggest researching them. Keep in mind that however you choose to identify, your interpretation of it can be uniquely individual and that choosing a label doesn't mean you have to stick to what it implies or never change it. If you want you can even make your own label, or choose none! You make your own rules.

It's not an answer you'll love to hear - time. The only way to be sure is to wait, in time you will learn more about who you are and get to know yourself until you're finally comfortable with yourself. And in the meantime – who says you have to be sure? My mentality is that if I fall in love with someone, gender is just part of the package! Not something that should be a source of stress and anxiety. Your sexuality is a part of you, no matter what it is. Embrace it! Don't feel forced to come out until you're comfortable, and remember you're so many other incredible things, too. Don't become your sexuality. Just learn to love it. Love yourself.

Difficult one. To be honest, I don't think anyone is ever completely sure, because it's never 'solid.' I think the most important thing is to find a 'label' that you're happy with, perhaps one that's closest to how you feel. And if you don't want to fit to a label, that's fine too!

I personally don't think there is a correct way to making sure of this? It is all very personal. We are so complex and our sexualities are very difficult to understand and too deep to completely define. If you are unsure, get educated about some other orientations in case you felt like you had to choose from a limited group. And the most important thing is that while we can find comfort in a label, it isn't that important. You can use umbrella terms like 'queer' but at the end of the day, the only people who should care about your sexuality are you and your sexual partner. Explore, define your limits, don't be afraid of not fitting into a box!

I would say, think about your feelings towards all genders and talk to people of different sexualities. Ask those people how they feel about their own sexuality and their life experiences. Seek LGBT resources, ideally in your local area and inquire.

It's ok not to be completely sure. Many people are still figuring out this aspect of themselves, so you're not alone. There's nothing wrong with experimenting to make sure of your sexuality, but make sure if you are experimenting with someone else, they know what you're doing.

Sexuality is not concrete. It's different from person to person. you do not really have to label yourself, just try to be what makes you happier

To be sure about your sexuality you would look at someone and think of how you would be happy or not in a relationship with that person :)

You could carry out some experiments or maybe read GxG or BxB stories to find out similarities, or talk to a trusted adult

You're never sure of your sexuality. Sexuality is something fluid and can change over time. You never know what will happen tomorrow. You might find someone you'll fall inlove with and it might be completely different from what you expect. It's alright to change your mind and look for the label you most identify with, but it's also okay to not label ourselves.