How can I be a good ally to the LGBTQ+ community?
Anonymous
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Jan 31, 2015
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1. Learn About the Diversity of Gender and Sexuality
A strong ally understands that not all LGBT people express themselves in the same way and is invested in understanding the wide range of identities and experiences that comprise the LGBT community.
2. Don’t Make Assumptions
Since there are countless ways to express one’s gender and sexuality, it’s not a good idea to assume that you have someone’s identity “figured out,†unless they’ve discussed it with you
3. Stand Up to Homophobia and Transphobia—Especially When It Isn’t Easy
Speak out against statements and jokes that are disrespectful to LGBT people. It’s sometimes hard to challenge friends and family, but letting others know that you find intolerance unacceptable can be effective in changing attitudes.
4. Get Involved with LGBT Members of Your Local Community
Many towns, schools, and religious communities have LGBT-friendly groups where you can meet and learn more about LGBT people. These groups often host public events to advocate for LGBT causes or otherwise empower the community and its allies. Ask an LGBT friend if they are a member of a group and see if you can tag along! Joining these events can be fun, educational, and exciting for all involved.
5Be Open
If there’s one thing we know about the LGBT community, it’s that we’re a highly dynamic and diverse medley of identities and experiences. That means the terms we use to describe ourselves and the causes that rise up and gain the most national momentum vary and shift. Keeping an open mind and remaining flexible in the face of change is central to being a good ally, whether you identify as LGBT or not.
These are just a few. Good Luck!
SimplyBeing
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Jun 28, 2016
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In my experience I have most grateful to my allies that have taken the time to ask what they could do. You are already doing one of the most helpful things. The act of asking acknowledges the person in front of you. One of my meditation teachers told me his most important practice was to say to himself, "the person in front of me is important and their happiness matters" before he spoke with another person. Focusing on compassion and kindness makes you an amazing ally to everyone.
RaCat
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Sep 5, 2016
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The best way to support LGBTQ+ community is to treat them normally. Just remember that sexuality or gender identify don't define any of us and we are still the same people so just act with LGBTQ+ person the same as you are acting with others. For me it would be the best, don't make a big deal on my sexuality and I think there is a lot of people from LGBTQ+ community who would agree with me!
melodyowl130
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Apr 3, 2015
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You can do a lot to help the community - donate to different supporting charities, join your school's club, and even attend a pride parade.
BlueYozhik
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Apr 8, 2015
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Great question. You can be an ally by respecting, supporting, and listening to members of the LGBTQ+ community. You can also confront ignorance about LGBTQ+ people within your group of friends, coworkers, peers and family members when you feel you have the background information to engage with the topic on a respectful level.
Anonymous
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May 7, 2015
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Listen to what we have to say without projecting your own interpretation, respect that our culture is changing and evolving, give us space to feel comfortable but also encourage intergration by making it not a big deal at all. We're all just people, just be kind :)
Anonymous
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May 15, 2015
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Its helpful to learn up on the topic and teach others out in the community about the facts. And volunteer helping out at the centers
Anonymous
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May 18, 2015
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There is a few ways that mean a lot to people I've met
1. Don't categorize things as boy or girl things to do
2.Don't assume you know what a person is. This brings many into bad trouble. You should ask their gender identity every time you meet a new person.
3. Don't stereotype the lgbt groups. (i.e. : He is gay, he has to be flamboyant. If he is a guy, why is he wearing a dress)
4. Educate yourself more. Lack of education brings many of us down.
To make it simple.
Anonymous
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May 28, 2015
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Promote LGBTQ+ awareness!! Just letting others know you are interested in heeling goes a long way. Nothing is more important that support.
bettereverdaay
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Nov 3, 2015
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Its important o be accepting and willing to listen. exposing ones sexuality is a very scary thing and they need you to be ready to accept them and to not judge
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