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How can I accept the fact that I'm a bisexual and not have it change my life?

Profile: Mikayla1000
Mikayla1000 on Apr 25, 2015
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Hey! Im bi as well :) First, know that you are still an awesome and lovely amazing person no matter what your sexuality is. Second, there's nothing wrong with being part of the LGBTQ+ anything. Third, You're loved ♥ Fourth, your life might change and that is okay - not all change is bad. You need to accept that you like Men and Women and know that you're still a beautiful person no matter who your significant other is. Sometimes people might not be happy to find out you like both sexes - it will be up to you to keep them in your life or not. You can always chose to not go with the same gender -- you can stay with the opposite one for sure! Do what makes you happy, feel loved and secure, be with someone that brings out the best in you and know that no matter what that is okay! ♥
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Profile: dkaren00
dkaren00 on Mar 26, 2015
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Acknowledging the fact that you are bisexual need not change your life because here's the thing: You have always been bisexual. Coming out may be a difficult thing but the people that matter and truly care will surely stand by you. You have not changed; you simply know more about yourself.
Profile: limitlesslight
limitlesslight on May 15, 2018
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Being bisexual is a personal trait. You don't have to share it with anyone unless you want to. You don't have to express it unless you want to. Being bisexual doesn't make you, 'you.' Accepting that you're bisexual doesn't change who you are as a person. Accepting that you're bisexual doesn't mean accepting any negative stigma that comes with the label. It means what it means to you, and nothing more or less. If you ever decide to express your bisexuality, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Only disclose details about your sexual orientation when you want to, to whom you want to, and most importantly when you feel safe to do so. Accepting that you're bisexual might not change your life, but choosing to express it could. It could be the best thing you ever do, because being your true self is extremely fulfilling.
Profile: Dailydaydreama
Dailydaydreama on Jan 15, 2015
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Same sex relationships can be difficult for many diffrent reasons ! The country you live in can impact on how you can feel safe excepting and expressing the feelings your having , religion and family values can make things more confusing ! Self love and safty should always come first :)
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Anonymous on Nov 9, 2015
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There should be no need to change your life if you don't want to. All bisexuality means is that you're open to engaging with both males and females on a deeper than friends level. Therefore, you can still live the life you love and nothing should ever stop you from doing so. You should also love yourself for who you are, no matter what your sexual orientation is.
Profile: MajesticEmbrace61
MajesticEmbrace61 on May 11, 2015
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The only thing that is going to change is how comfortable you will feel in your own skin. Accepting yourself is an amazing feeling that can't be replaced by anything, not even the world's acceptance. Things may or may not be harder with the people around you, but when you love yourself and understand how perfect you are, everything just kind of falls into place. Point is, it will change your life and it might even change some of your relationships, but boy will it be worth it!
Profile: readerandwriter
readerandwriter on Sep 8, 2015
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Though it may be difficult to realize, it is ok for your sexuality to change in your lifetime. There's nothing wrong with believing that you're bisexual at one time but then realizing that you may be gay at another time.
Profile: Aayla
Aayla on Jul 4, 2017
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Just keep in mind that there is nothing wrong about your sexual orientation, self-acceptance can only bring positivity and freedom to your life. People who really love you are gonna support you anyway, and if you want to meet more people who are facing or have faced the same situation of insecurity the LGBTQ+ community will surely welcome you.
Profile: GoldenDragonEyes60
GoldenDragonEyes60 on May 6, 2015
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Being bisexual doesn't change who you are or what you like or do. You're still you, you just have a lot more options in life on who you can love or be with. You don't have to change yourself, your friends, your family, your religion, your likes, or your dislikes. You're allowed to just be you.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 11, 2015
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live how you've always lived, just cause your bi dosent mean that things have to be different. its as different as you let it get.
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