Does everyone secretly despise LGBTs although many openly claim to accept and love it, including LGBT members and allies? Are there really people who see LGBT as of equal worth as heterosexuals?

As a n LGBT member, I truly accept the community and believe we deserve to be equal to heterosexuals.

Yes, many people see LGBT+ people as equal to heterosexual/cisgender people. As a whole, I think most of the LGBT+ community is supportive of others within the community (it's not a 100% thing, but it holds true for most people). Nobody should believe that anyone is any less of a person simply because of their gender identity or sexual orientation.

It depends on the person. My best friend is a lesbian and I feel that she is really open about all sorts of things and tend to be less judging. Probably because she knows how it feels to be judged by other people.

I'm sorry that you have had enough negative experience with LGBT+ people and allies to raise this question. Some people might feel pressured to claim they are an ally even if they, deep down, aren't. Sadly, some LGBT+ people are also socialized to despise themselves and people like them simply because they have heard "everything that's not heterosexual and cisgender is wrong" enough times in their life. But this definetly doesn't include every ally or member! Luckily, the mindset that sexuality and gender identification does neither determine nor influence a person's worth is growing largely! Worry not, there are many people out there who truly don't judge people by whom or how they love or by what pronouns they prefer. I hope that you will meet these people soon :)

Yes. I honestly don't know why you're worrying about this people don't really think about LGBT people care about it and people are against it. If your worried about being seen as equal or unequal, then whoever makes you feel that way is a duck turd. I didn't really help at all but that's my answer.

Not everyone hates LGBT secretly. There are plenty of people who love and support LGBT community. Obviously, it depends on where you go. In more privileged countries, there tends to be more support for LGBT people. But there are still places where its illegal to be gay.

Yes I see them as the same as me and others we are all the same you can't change how you are, you are amazing no matter your sexuality

Yes, of course there are. I am proud to be part of the LGBT community and know that there are people who love us for who we are.

I am completely accepting of the LGBT community. I see a homosexual couple the same way I see a heterosexual couple. However, there probably are people out there that do not accept the LGBT community and don't speak up on the matter because it can be a controversial topic.

Of course there are people who see LGBTs as equals! There are many heterosexual people who are friends with LGBTs.