Does everyone secretly despise LGBTs although many openly claim to accept and love it, including LGBT members and allies? Are there really people who see LGBT as of equal worth as heterosexuals?

No, I dont think that everyone secretly despises members of the LGBTQ+ Community. As a member I have of course a diffrent point of view than straight Cis people but I think that many people simply despise members of our Community because of fear and ignorance of the community. Some never get any contact to them when they grow up and the strange and foreign things are scary because of our biology. In the past it was safe to stay away from foreign things but we have overcome this stage of developement. So long story short, many people who are accepting, love members of the community the same they love straight cis people.