Can I be attracted to a gender but not in a sexual way? Like I want to be with them but not have sex with them?

Yes! This kind of attraction is purely romantic attraction and there are labels in the lgbtq+ community for purely romantic types of attraction! Biromantic, panromantic, etc! It's completely normal!

Yes, of course! There are a lot of people who don't feel the need to label themselves, as sexuality is very often a fluid concept, and we shouldn't feel the need to tie ourselves down to one defining point.

Of course. Attraction can be romantic and platonic as well as sexual so you can feel any or none of them or any combination of these.

Yes! You can most definitely have only romantic attraction, but not be sexually attracted to a gender.

Yes, you can be attracted to any gender in any way. You can want to be with them and not want to have sex with them. It just means that you're romantically or aesthetically attracted to that gender. Please don't feel like what you feel is invalid. It isn't. There are panromantic, biromantic, homoromantic, and heteroromantic people. And asexual people. What they feel is valid and real. And so are you. And in the end of the day, you love a human. The gender barely matters these days. It's about who we are comfortable with and how. Good luck with discovering yourself and your interest and feel free to reach out to safe spaces like 7cups whenever you need.

Yes. From my own experience there are certain qualities that I am attracted to and similarities in personality. However, those relationships were only as friends. When you have engaging and meaningful conversations, you just enjoy each other’s company. Growing up, majority of my friends were from the opposite gender. I always felt like I related to them more. I got their feedback and viewpoints on relationship issues. It just felt easier. I found all of them to be like family to me. I never saw them as anything more than that as that would be really odd.