Am I really who I want to be?

I think that this is a question that only you can answer. Listen to your heart and don't let others change how you want to live.

Unfortunately, I haven't really become who I want to be. I really wish I can help others while living at ease when I am on myself. I have found these two goals to be conflicting. I try my best to help others, but that often make me feel uncomfortable since my needs aren't met. Family stress and school work are also factors that I need to cope with on my way of becoming who I want to be. One other problem is that I haven't found a clear direction in life, which is making it hard for me to even start working to become the person I want to be. So my most immediate step is going to be finding short term and long term goals.