Actually I spent most of my life trying to determine my sexuality, Did you face the same phase?

I still am discovering and learning what my sexuality is and what it means to me. I believe sexuality can be fluid for some people where it may change, I think we never stop discovering more about ourselves, what we desire and what we are attracted to.

I did for years...I still am to this day....I would really like to know what causes it because it definitely wasn’t by choice for me p

I understand you completely. From a young age I've wondered if whether or not I was bisexual. I read a lot about it and tried figuring it out, and I decided for myself I was.

I am stI'll very young but I had a suspicion of being gay or bi when I was as young as primary 2 so that's about 6 years old and I'm still trying to fully figure it out you'll get there in your own time. I was asked out by a girl tonight and I agreed to try, I hope this will make it clearer for me and if you do the same thing it will help you identify your own sexuality. Another way to figure it out is picture yourself kissing the same gender then the opposite and see what you prefer in your imagination

Thank you for reaching out! Sexuality is such a broad topic and a lot of information on the types of sexuality from homosexuality, bisexuality, asexuality etc. They all share one thing in common no matter who different the attraction is, the power of love. As someone who spent a lot of time trying to figure out their sexuality the pressure of putting a label on myself, never actually made me happy. It’s important that you ask yourself: Am I safe and comfortable to give myself a label? Do I want to try and explore the parts of myself I am questioning with other consenting parties? Am I always curious or feel that my sexuality is defined by the behaviors I display? You could as a bisexual person question whether you are “bisexual enough” as you have had more relationships with women than men. Ask yourself is your attitude towards sexuality based on your own thoughts and feelings and how much of an influence society is having on how you feel you should define yourself. What matters is you being comfortable in your own sexuality not how others should think you should see and interpret your sexuality. I wish you all the best in exploring who you are and acceptance in who you are. You are welcome to communicate with any one of our amazing listeners and therapists on our site who can give you a listening ear.