Actually I spent most of my life trying to determine my sexuality, Did you face the same phase?
Anonymous
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Feb 23, 2015
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Yes... I'm still trying to determine my sexuality, actually! I've yet to be in an official relationship and have never really been sure of how I feel about different genders.
NotAllWhoWanderAreLostf
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Feb 25, 2015
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I did, It took me seventeen years to admit to myself what I really wanted and who I was. It took a lot of thinking and searching within myself, but it feels really good once you figure everything out and admit it.
Gi
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Apr 4, 2015
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Yeah, for a while. Then i realised I didnt felt the need to label myself to be happy. Some people do, and thats okay. But I dont so I was like "Why am I wasting my time with something other people pressure me to think about?". Basically, if you feel okay not being sure --whatever, go and like whoever you want to!
Aayla
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Oct 21, 2019
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It's very common to have a long questioning phase and a hard time finding out one's own identity. That may be due to many reasons, and there's nothing wrong with that, it's normal that it can be a long and complex process! One thing that really helps is to get as much information as possible about the different sexualities, and another great help is to get support from trustworthy people: supportive family members and friends, but above people that are expert about it, such as the LGBT community or a therapist.
Mac21
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May 3, 2015
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I know I did. A turning point for me was when I decided that I don't have to label my sexuality to be okay with it.
plumnectarine
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May 17, 2015
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Oh yeah totes, I would lie in bed at night wrestling with the possibility of my not-straightness. Its natural, trust me
WarmEnergy07
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May 30, 2015
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I have always felt like I was and been comfortable being heterosexual. However, I feel like everyones experience is slightly different in regards to sexuality and that everyone should know that having a different experience does not reflect on an individual person in any way.
AndyWithers
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Jun 22, 2015
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I dont think its important to know which sexuality you are,just be yourself and love who you love! :) - and btw i dont really care about my sexuality and i think it can change everytime! :)
SaoirseRoseC
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Jul 27, 2015
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I struggled with my sexuality in my earlier life, it turns out I was actually struggling with gender identity but couldn't put it in words, as soon as I began to accept my gender identity, my sexuality became very clear.
beautifulRose92
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Aug 3, 2015
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yes most of us need to explore to see what sexuality you are it is not determined in what others want you to be its what you are comfortable with
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