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Why doesn't taking care of myself come naturally to me?

Profile: paperCrane15
paperCrane15 on Sep 2, 2016
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There can be many reasons. Usually it is caused by depression, even if you feel okay - something can bother you a lot.
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Profile: Nilo1602
Nilo1602 on Sep 8, 2016
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We tend to diminish our problems, to think they are not important, while we care more for the rest.
Profile: Activechris
Activechris on Sep 9, 2016
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It is just a way of life Some people just need a little help and guidance to show that it is natural
Profile: myzzlyzz
myzzlyzz on Sep 23, 2016
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I always put myself last. Physically, emotionally, mentally. I am trying to make changes to put myself first. It isn't easy. But i have to make a conscious choice to come first.
Profile: Brighteyes86
Brighteyes86 on Oct 5, 2016
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Take care of oneself is something most people have to work at. The difference between someone that is doing more often than others, is they have made a chose and they make that chose every day to better themselves because that's what they want.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Oct 7, 2016
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I am so focused on helping others that it is hard to focus on myself and my own needs, always try to put others first :)
Profile: WaltzingRavens
WaltzingRavens on Nov 13, 2016
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For me, I'm such an absentminded person that I often forget to take care of my basic needs, like showering and eating. It helps to make a checklist or set up alarms to remind yourself
Profile: AutumnLeigh
AutumnLeigh on Mar 2, 2017
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Perhaps you have spent a large part of your life taking care of others or trying to make others happy. It's important to try to try to break that habit. If you truly want to help others, you have to first care for yourself.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 23, 2017
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I wouldn't say it comes naturally to me. It was definitely learned in my case. I was someone that always took care of others before myself. I realized I was generally, not that happy... then I changed to make self care a priority. It is amazing the difference it has made!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 3, 2017
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It sounds as though you put everyone else ahead of yourself, which is very easy to do. Remembering to practice self-care is important so that you can be the healthiest version of yourself and be able to continue to give to others.
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