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What should I do when I hear cheating rumors about my boyfriend of six months? He has denied it already but he had an affair with a girl in the past. We broke up after that but came back.

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Anonymous on Jul 6, 2018
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Since he cheated on you before, he should feel lucky that you took him back and forgave him. For that reason, he should NOT take advantage of your trust again. You should definitely talk to him about the issue and make it known to BOTH of yall that you do not deserve this!!!! Do not settle, you deserve more and greater!
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Anonymous on Nov 15, 2021
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I believe that the best thing to do in this situation is to have an open, honest conversation with him about the rumors. There is nobody that you should be talking to but him about these rumors. You should also asses if this is a safe relationship for you. Keep in mind that these patterns of cheating may continue and ultimately cause you pain for a very long time. Addressing these rumors directly with your boyfriend is a great first step and keeping in mind that, if they are true, it may be time to reconsider if this is a person you trust your heart with.
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endearingLion70 on Jul 2, 2018
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Judging from your history it is hard to trust someone who cheated on you once already. Tell him about the rumors again.
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