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Why don't they understand me?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 15, 2018
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i feel like they don,t understand me, i feel like they are always looking for the wrong in me and i feel like it makes them look better. it has been this way my whole life and i feel like if i do something very good them i am an outsider to them because i am now different and they can't adjust or raise the bar for me. i call it being lazy that they can't adjust to my perfections. are they jealous or envious?
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 18, 2018
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I believe that everybody has totally different experiences. And that's because our life is different because of the choices we make in our own life. So nobody can truly see the situation from someone's else eyes. So, nobody can understand how you feel except when they have the same experiences with you. And the only person who does is yourself
Profile: HugsNPugs3
HugsNPugs3 on Apr 29, 2018
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It could be you're not explaining them enough and being clear. Very important to explain to them gently with calmness and make sure to speak out and share your feelings as much as possible. Could be there closed mined and they can't understand certain situations they never experienced which is hard to make someone understand how it in your shoes so he has to go through a similar situation first
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Anonymous on May 16, 2018
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Maybe your not expressing yourself enough, instead of keeping all of your inner feelings a secret you can tell them how you feel. So they can properly understand you
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XxToxicFelinexX on May 26, 2018
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Honestly, I would say that it is because they haven't been through the same issues and situations that you have been in, so they wouldn't know the emotions that come with it, simply coming back to them not knowing the experience and how to deal with it.
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Livelovedream18 on Jun 2, 2018
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If they don't understand you, don't waste your time waiting for them to. Talk to them about it or talk with someone like me about it.
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Sken24 on Jun 2, 2018
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People who usually do not understand have either never been through what experience you have had or hold their own perception of how to deal with life issues and have the inability to see others perspectives.
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Anonymous on Jun 10, 2018
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The only person who can truly understand you is yourself. But other people can be great for listening, being sympathetic and empathetic, and validating the emotions that you feel.
Profile: JeyCoo32
JeyCoo32 on Jun 15, 2018
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well, a lack of communication, a bad interpretations of events or uncleared talks can all lead to misunderstanding someone
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Anonymous on Jun 17, 2018
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You are your own person. Nobody has seen or thought the same thing that you do. There are a few people who have been through similar situations though. Somebody out there knows and understands you.
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