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Why don't they understand me?

Profile: softLight466
softLight466 on Feb 5, 2020
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The simple answer would be, cause they are not you.Its hard sometimes and no one really gets us but that is time we must hold on to hope and know that someone will always be there.You are never alone, we might notunderstand but tha does not mean we dont care. WE do, I do for there was a time where I questioned, why dont they understand me. The only person who knows you the best is you. It will be hard but you can do it. There is always hope. Even if they dont understand you hold on, because when someone else needs understanding, you might be the person to give them hope, cause you understand.
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Profile: TrueHelper1
TrueHelper1 on Feb 22, 2020
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Everyone is different. Nobody really understands anybody. What matters is that we all do our best, sometimes it might feel like people aren't trying for you, but I promise they are. Just because they don't understand you it doesn't mean they're not trying to. Maybe you should reach out more and explain what you think is missing from their understanding of you? Maybe you could try asking people to more conscious of your feeling and maybe try to be more open. Everyone is just trying their personal best! Don't take anything too personally, sometimes people just slip up or miss simple things.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 26, 2020
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Sometimes people have more time to get to know a person then some people do. Sadly people do not take the time to get to know a person,like they use to. There is a lot of factors that come into play here. I will name just a few,here. This is not all of the reasons,that could be the reason,that people do not understand others,like your-self. Work for some will factor into it. Education as well. Sometimes the way you are raised plays a role. The individual personality as well. Some people love to get to know a person,and will take the time to. Sadly,others will not. The key here is to find people, who will take the time to understand you, and who knows,they might even try to be your friend and want to talk with you.
Profile: beautifuldarkclouds
beautifuldarkclouds on Apr 2, 2020
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No, they won't. First of all, try to understand yourself. We are unique in your way. Each of us has our own way of percieving things. Like, the way you see the situations, the way you handle it, the way you take or learn from situation, etc. All these things makes us unique. Now when it comes to understanding, that's an difficult part. Nobody can understand anyobody in an 100% way, until or unless that person is a robot or machine. Let start with yourself, ask yourself, how better you can understand others and think what if the others might be feeling exactly the same way. Not lets come to another person, is he/she person who can understand others or the way you express is making difficulty to understand you. So, I think, what you can do here is, make your part clear, are you saying it clearly? are you expressing it clearly? are you talking to the right person who could listen to you? Are expressing it in a right way?
Profile: Jann1437musicrocks
Jann1437musicrocks on Apr 29, 2020
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Understanding isn't that hard but maybe you as a member have to explain more so the ones would understand you and help you but if you just mixed things no one will understand . Try to explain slowly to let people understand you not even here talk slowly i'm talking in general . If you don't speak casually the people won't understand and maybe would make fun of you(im not saying here on 7 cups ). Steps for people to understand you 1st introduce yourself 2nd take a deep breath 3rd explain what is your issue 4th don't be pushy 5th casually and slowly 6th patience is the key!!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 14, 2020
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Many can try to step into your shoes and walk from your perspective, but no one can really understand how you truly feel but yourself. It seems so difficult when it seems like you are the only one but there's someone out there who feels the same way, but just deals with it differently. Everyone faces similar obstacles and road blocks at different points in their life, and they each move past it differently. That's why we're all unique and special in our own way because what we've gone through is for a reason meant only for us. Sometimes it's not that they don't understand, but by experience, they're helping you by just being there with you.
Profile: Kellyishere
Kellyishere on Jun 12, 2020
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It is sometimes hard for people to fully understand another person. Nobody will have lived the same life as you, experienced the same thing, nor feel the same way. The most important thing is understanding yourself, and being aware that others would not always understand what we're going through but that is OK, as long as you understand yourself. When I lost my first job in 2019, I was disappointed with myself, so much, that I didn't tell my family or friends for a while. I confided in my partner, and his response was 'If it was me, I would have told everyone'. A lot was racing through my mind. One of which was I felt I wasn't doing it right, and I should have told people (this is expectations). So instead of being upset and disappointed with losing my job I became upset that I wasn't going through the 'right' process. What I had to do is be aware that my partner is different from me, and how he deals with stressful situations is by talking to people, and for me, I process it all internally and the reason I do this is because I didn't want to feel other people's disappointment. So by understanding why I kept losing my job from friends and family, and how I process information, I was less upset with what my partner said, but also allowed myself to feel the disappointment.
Profile: Therainbow81
Therainbow81 on Jun 25, 2020
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Because they do not know what are you facing. You probably seem like a normal person to them . And you live like a normal person . All of this depression and sadness is just in your had . They can not understand you because they. Cannot go in your had . Even if they did they still can not understand you because they do not know what it feels like to feel this sadness. You have to tell them what it is like . This is the only chance that they understand you . If they know what are you facing ...
Profile: animalFlower6275
animalFlower6275 on Jun 27, 2020
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Feeling that no one understand you is completely normal sometimes. This can be help by having positive thoughts and by removing the negative energy of suppressed emotions, raises one’s vibration, and increases attraction in the energy one projects. Therapies can help you understand or remove the feeling that no one understands you, or you can find what generates this ideas but with the correct therapy you can understand the reasons of this feeling. Since there is many reasons of why you feel this way, one of it could be Low-self stem Where people feel that no one understands or pay attention to them. By removing those thought with the right therapy can have a positive outcome.
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People grew up from different families and different backgrounds. It is difficult for everyone to understand you. The reason why friends become friends is that they have something in common. But even for friends, they can not understand every bit of you. Please do not be disappointed by that. Because everyone is unique. We are little islands and reach out for connections with our small branches. Meanwhile, we still have most parts of ourselves stay in the island. It is great to have someone understand you in some parts. However, you still remain very much part of you to yourself only. If the person is important to me and you really want the person to understand what you mean, explain to him or her with the clearest expression you can. Then, you did your part. It in on that person to whether understand you or not. He or she may not want to do the effort at all. On the other hand, he or she may not able to understand. So after the best you can do, just leave it and accept the result
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