Why does our parents won't listen to us? We always argue because of somethings..and they always compare us to others..they can't see the good things we do

Maybe we are just becoming too distant from our parents by not trying to share and hide things being afraid they will react to. It is important to let our parents know that we trust them and try to get them to trust us too. Because parents are the closest people available who actually see us grow up with our particular features and our individual needs. Some parents are a bit too emotional, they want more importance from their children just like children want importance from their parents...sometimes they create these comparisons out of emotions(anger, sadness, loneliness etc) but if we explain to them clam and politely they will understand for sure. After everything they are OUR parents not someone else's. You just need to remember they love you whatever they do will seem vague then. Recall the moments we were our parents pain, the time when all they cared as assets was bringing us up safely. We are just being too ungrateful. Parents are the best gifts anyone in this world will ever have.