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Why do kids call their parents by their first name?

Profile: SilentScreams2239
SilentScreams2239 on Apr 21, 2016
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Some do it because it feels better, like they don't feel comfortable with mom or dad. While some say it just to get on their nerves. It all depends on the child
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Profile: scorpion34
scorpion34 on Apr 30, 2016
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I only know of one person that calls his parents by their first names, and that is because he gets along with them very well and he respects them. However, I can see how for many parents it may be seen as a sign of disrespect and rebellion, a way to undermine their authority.
Profile: thesecretkeeper1115
thesecretkeeper1115 on May 1, 2016
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It must be cultural. Not all kids do that. Children learn by imitating what they see and hear from their role models. If they see, that calling their parents by their first names doesn't result to punishment, the more likely they will continue to do that.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 1, 2016
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It's different in many cases. Sometimes it's the parenting style, the parent may want their child to learn their name first, so, it may work like that. Other times, it may be out of disrespect.
Profile: comfortableNatural77
comfortableNatural77 on May 6, 2016
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It's depends on their parents what they want to be called but calling dad or mom is the only the real emotions lies in it .so parents seems to friendly with their childrens so that they feel easy with their parents to share and learn
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Anonymous on May 6, 2016
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Some parents raise their kids to call them by their first names. To them, it's normal and proper. They just do it because they were taught to
Profile: kindMoment44
kindMoment44 on May 6, 2016
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Thats to do with their upbringing. They might have been allowed to do so by their parents. It isnt always disrespectful, it might be used as a jokey thing. But it all comes down to the upbringing of the kid.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 13, 2016
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Not all children call their parents by their first name, but some reasons could be: 1. they see them as their best friend, but there's still that mutual respect 2. their parents don't really want themselves to be called "mum" or "dad"
Profile: Silent0raindrop
Silent0raindrop on May 15, 2016
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It's the fact that the know the crave knowing things you don't want them to and they're letting you know that you're not hiding it from them anymore
Profile: hopefulSoul81
hopefulSoul81 on May 15, 2016
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They might not feel as honored to call them by their first name. Or they just simply not comfortable to say the word mom or dad
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