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Why do kids call their parents by their first name?

Profile: LeahMargarita
LeahMargarita on May 11, 2016
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Sometimes they are more comfortable with calling them by their first name. Especially to step parents or adoptive parents
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Anonymous on Mar 17, 2016
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Maybe they're not as close to them as some other people or maybe as a sign of "respect" if their parents want to be called that.
Profile: calmBeauty57
calmBeauty57 on Mar 30, 2016
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Because they want to distinguish them as adult peers as opposed to superior beings in their lives. It a be healthy and productive to encourage a relationship such as this.
Profile: AndyDufresne1994
AndyDufresne1994 on May 5, 2016
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I think that is a family by family thing and some families not need formality. Some do. We were never told what to call our parents. We figured it out. Clear rules we lived by and feared really. I would not assume a kid who calls their parent by their first name is a bad kid.... Every family is different.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 26, 2018
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To personalise them. To feel more adult. Because its their name. Its very nice to be able to switch between the titel and the name of a parent makes for comfort, saftey and personal connection
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Anonymous on May 5, 2016
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To show that they dont have to listen to their parents. Their parents may be scared of them so they dont do anything about it. Its rude and you should never call your parent by their first name.
Profile: niceSun56
niceSun56 on Jun 5, 2018
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Different parenting styles work in different families. Some parents may be comfortable with this. As for you, stick with what you're comfortable with.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 13, 2016
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Well for me I call my mom by her first name because she was my preschool teacher and all of the kids had to call her my her first name
Profile: shvrry
shvrry on Feb 18, 2016
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Some kids don't have full respect for their parents, in my opinion. Or, some kids must've been adopted and don't feel the need to call them "mom" or "dad".
Profile: LucyCat20
LucyCat20 on Mar 12, 2016
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sometimes its often lack of respect depending on the age or it can just be a family sort of thing
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