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Why do I always think my husband is cheating on me?

Profile: healingSnowflake51
healingSnowflake51 on Jun 12, 2016
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Maybe it's because of something which has happened in the past and which made you doubt about him. Or maybe it's just because you're really stressed out and everything seems to turn against you even within your love life.
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Profile: caterina9999
caterina9999 on Jun 2, 2016
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Sounds like you have trust issues. Try discussing it with him, tell him your concerns and see how he reacts. Did you feel abandoned by your parents growing up? Not enough loved? Have you ever been cheated on?
Profile: TessMo
TessMo on May 19, 2017
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I'm not married but when I think about marriage, I feel like this will be a constant fear. I don't have any boyfriend or a romantic partner, but when I do have a crush and they like me back (which is very rare), I always have that feeling that they'll bump into someone better than me and forget about me. I guess it's because I feel less than and also my anxiety makes me fear everything.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 20, 2018
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Maybe something similar has happened in a previous relationship and this is an insecurity that has stuck with you over time. Or maybe you love him so much that you can't bear to think how your life without him might be, so you're constantly worrying that something is going to go wrong and ruin the perfect fairytale you have panned out in your mind? It's natural, but if he's making an effort to be loyal, make sure you recognize it as this will help put your fears to rest as well. Give it a thought :)
Profile: Here4u2smile
Here4u2smile on Aug 10, 2016
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Because you are afraid of losing him. Maybe because you have been cheated on and think he will do the same. Not everyone is the same. There is a reason he chose you to be his wife.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Sep 13, 2017
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Good question. Why do you? What evidence have you seen? Is it absolute concrete evidence? What has he said or done specifically that people who cheat do?
Profile: heavenlySong29
heavenlySong29 on Apr 29, 2016
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Maybe your over thinking or he is busy or not around that much but that doesnt mean he is cheating .
Profile: LoneWolf1010
LoneWolf1010 on Apr 1, 2018
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It all depends on 2 important things... One is trust and the other is mutual understanding. To clear out this issue.. you need to talk to your husband and clear it out. This might get awkward for a moment... But does help for great relationship.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 1, 2016
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He maybe jealous or is starting to be bored. He may just be unhappy or something like that! It depends
Profile: AutumnLeigh
AutumnLeigh on Mar 2, 2017
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If you have a history of trauma from cheating in past relationships, it can be very difficult to overcome. Does your husband show signs of cheating or do you feel this impulse may be unwarranted? If you would like to talk with him about your fears, please try to remain open and optimistic about his answers. Explain that this is a fear and not an accusation. Good luck!
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