Why do I always think my husband is cheating on me?

If you think that your husband may be cheating on you the best thing that you can do is to sit and have a talk with him. In order to keep a strong relationship you have to trust them. So, it is better to have a normal conversation rather than accusing them and making it seem as if you don't have trust or faith in them. If they still seem to be hiding a lot from you I believe that you should take a hard look into what is making you think that he is cheating on you. Maybe there is a deeper reason that you have that feeling.

In close relationships, I find that my own thoughts about them can say a lot about my own fears and insecurities. We all have them! Perhaps if you look deeper, you may be able to find some fear that has come from your previous life experience, and it's showing in the form of jealousy or anger directed at your partner. I know that when I feel insecure, my mind can go to all sorts of worst case scenarios. I hope this helps, and good luck on your journey.. It's great that you're looking further into your thought processes to deal with these fears.

Because maybe you feel worried or anxious self conscious ously that you are not enough for him and it hurts you because it makes you question yourself. If you feel the way you do, you should try to talk to your husband and explain how you feel and try to work out a solution that makes you feel more calm. I know how that feels to have the doubts that my partner or spouse was cheating on me. After explaining it to her and asking her to support me, she understood why I was feeling the way I did and explained she would do all she could as my spouse to help improve our relationship and self confidence.

A husband is supposed to be loyal, but of course some people do not do this thing. You need to think what triggered this thought in the first place. Maybe you husband is not responding to your messages or calls and then overthinking comes in. There are plenty of reasons of why this thought is in your head. With such thoughts comes confusion, why me what did I do to deserve such thing, stress, anxiety and in the worst case scenario, depression. You are *always* thinking of this because your husband is a huge part of your life. But you and your health is more important, you come first place always, but not to the point is narcisissm.

Trust issues. More than likely at one point in your life you have been betrayed and you are scared it may happen again. Maybe he is just acting strangely, maybe you just feel insecure. I believe that fear of infidelity crosses every it's the the fear of being made a fool, and the fear of being hurt and losing something that means the most to you. It's normal to be afraid of those things. Commitment is scary, marriage is scary. I had this issue for a very long time with my husband, it took me a long time to realize that I was just making myself crazy. I was worried about something that wasn't going on and that in itself was taking a toll on my marriage. I finally realized that even IF he ever did cheat on me, then he wasn't the man I thought I married and if would rather be with someone else, than I the person I thought I knew wasn't real. Take a good look at why you think the way you do, and then confront the issue, whether it be yourself, or your husband.

It could be because you love him and don't want to see him with anyone else. When you see him with another girl and you want him all to yourself, its easy to think he's cheating on you. He could feel the same way about you and you will never know if you don't ask. Talk to him and ask him if he is seeing another girl. You will never know if you don't ask. It may be hard or even embarrassing, but it will help you figure things out between the two of you. Do ask him and act accordingly.

Sometimes women think this because things aren't the same or the husband isn't the same a little distant or because they're always on the phone ect, sometimes its because self esteem, the best thing u can do is actually talk to each other and bring out how you feel that way if he isn't cheating you wont ruin your marriage and maybe you can actually spy on him which maybe can help but be careful cuz if he isn't he might get mad, and like i said sometimes its just in our head , we see other women and it makes us feel less

It is stressful to think your husband is cheating. Early last year, my husband was always giving me reasons not to trust him. The suspicions were affecting me. I went online for solutions and I was introduced to a hacker/programmer Cyberhunters2, I contacted him via gmail to give me remote access to my phone to confirm things myself. Thanks to this man i got proof that my husband was cheating. He was surprised I knew, Hence he was forced to stop all acts and he has not cheated ever since, because he was surprised I knew about his activities when he was still cheating.

You may I have this feeling because you have trust-isuess from past relationships or some problems in the past. Or it's just a fear that you do not want to lose your loved one. He gave you signals or it is just a feeling you have? If your hubby did not ever did something to prove you wrong, you should have faith in him because I'm sure that he loves you so much and that he would not ever want to hurt you or your feelings. Try to communicate with him about that you are worried, you may get surprised about his thoughts and reactions.

Usually, if we've experienced something in the past, we look out with extra vigilance for signs of it happening again. If you've been in previous relationships where your partner has cheated on you, then it may seem inevitable that your new partner will do the same thing, even if there is no evidence to suggest that they are doing so (or likely to do so). In this instance, it is helpful to ask "When have I experienced feelings like this before?" . If it's a carryover from past relationships, it may be helpful to share your fears with your new partner. In the absence of prior cheating, it may also come down to what is known as your 'attachment style', where our learned behaviours and expectations from our parental interactions during childhood continue to shape our adult experience.