When do i get to stop making everyone else happy?
anonymous9irl
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Aug 31, 2016
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Anytime you feel like it's getting too much for you. It's not your job to keep everyone else happy, you're only responsible for your own happiness
Anonymous
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Sep 1, 2016
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The moment we realise that we matter and we start living for our own happiness. Happiness spreads.
EsmeRose
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Sep 1, 2016
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Focusing on yourself and your own mental state is key. It may sound selfish but if others are putting themselves first then so should you. It may be hard when you are the one people turn to to be cheered up however just simply tell them you are having problems of your own and need to focus on yourself for a little while.
Anonymous
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Sep 4, 2016
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You have to put you first if you are not happy how can anyone else become happy with your energy focus at least one good reason your happiness is important
BintNajem
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Sep 4, 2016
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When I start making all of them sad. ;)
Also when I start getting egocentric and become insensitve about others happiness.
Anonymous
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Sep 7, 2016
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I have been treated and reached out to in a kind and compassionate manner that helped me feel like I was understood in what I was going through.
Anonymous
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Sep 7, 2016
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The truth is that its not up to you to make everyone else happy. all you should worry about is making yourself happy. But if you want to make others happy then go ahead, because sometimes it can.make you happy to.
Anonymous
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Sep 9, 2016
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When you get to a place when you find happiness within yourself. Happiness comes from within and not from trying to please others.
Anonymous
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Sep 10, 2016
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Whenever you choose. You can only choose your actions. It is not you who should make people happy. Rather, if you are friends, then it should be a balance.
CharlieMorningstar
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Sep 10, 2016
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When you put your own needs ahead of theirs. If you teach everyone around you that they come first, you're also telling them that you come second. Take care of your body and mind before other people, and when you're doing well, you can help them. There's absolutely nothing wrong with telling someone that you can't shoulder their problems when you're too busy with your own.
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