When do i get to stop making everyone else happy?
Anonymous
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Jul 17, 2016
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Don't stop, just let other people make you happy too, maybe your spending too much time making everyone else happy you haven't realised everyone wants you to be happy too xxx
SpeissOfCake
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Jul 20, 2016
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The moment you realize that making everyone is happy is a result of being avoidance of dealing with your own happiness and struggles. People exist to give you a new dimension of experience, they're not really the focus point, but how they connect with who you are. Get in touch with your own grounding and understand more of how people are coming to you, how you are being affected by others, and understand what everything means outside of you. For you, personally, you are the center point of life, no matter who it is you would be dealing with in that moment. It is you who is the main focus, and not others, we service ourselves from time to time when others NEED and DESIRE it, for as long as it mutually is in there and your best interest.
MrsMemeQueen
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Aug 4, 2016
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I doubt you do, as long as you are aware of their situation and what makes them sad then as long as youre mindful and considerate then you wont :D
allnaturalUnicorns70
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Aug 11, 2016
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The second you decide it isn't your job to make other people happy, but rather to be gracious, polite and helpful to them while meeting your own needs. I hope you find peace!
Anonymous
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Aug 17, 2016
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As soon as you decide that your happiness should always come before anyone else's. You should always take your own advice :)
CaringArtsy
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Aug 18, 2016
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There isnt a time limit for giving your effort to make others happy.There are current sighns that you are giving to much and you forget about your happiness.If you ever feel like your forgeting to think about yourself thats the sighn to give it a pause and be a little selfish .You deserve to be happy too ♡
Anonymous
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Aug 19, 2016
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When you feel that it takes too much of your energy and your own happiness.
Remina
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Aug 24, 2016
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Remember that we cannot pour from an empty cup. While helping people is a wonderful thing to do, we also have to be selfish sometimes. We matter. Consider your needs and your wants and ask yourself are you being fulfilled or not? What could you do to be happy while also not going against yourself and what you like to do? Is there a way to compromise with wanting to make others happy while also taking care of your own happiness?
Anonymous
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Aug 25, 2016
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You have to realize that your purpose in life is not to please others, you have to take care of yourself.
Anonymous
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Aug 27, 2016
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As soon as you stop valuing yourself below everyone else. You need to make the change to focus on you and make yourself happy.
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