When do i get to stop making everyone else happy?
Anonymous
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Jun 11, 2016
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If you want to stop making everyone else happy. The trick is not stop thinking about making everyone else happy. You have to think what you want for your life. Focus on what makes you happy.
Anonymous
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Jun 12, 2016
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Today. You are worthy of self love and happiness. Today is the day you should stop what you're doing and give this time to yourself. Whatever it may be- go for a walk, make a dinner just for you, watch a silly movie, practice your yoga. YOU deserve to be happy, and I wish someone would have told me this a long time ago.
Anonymous
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Jun 16, 2016
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You can only make others happy when you make yourself happy first. Take a deep breath and decide you come first.
Supergirl94
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Jun 16, 2016
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Don't focus on trying to make everyone else happy. Focus on making yourself happy and just helping others when you can, even in the smallest way like a smile or a listening ear. :) Don't think of it as a burden or a job with a deadline. You should want to help others, but don't try and make them happy. Just help them
SamLadybug88
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Jun 18, 2016
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Right now. Now is the time to focus on you and your needs. Taking care of yourself is just as important as taking care of others
Anonymous
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Jun 25, 2016
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The decision is solely yours. Sometimes you need to realize where to draw the line, and where to start prioritizing yourself over others.
hopefulBeauty40
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Jun 26, 2016
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You should stop making everyone else happy when they have been draining the happiness in you. You matter first
Flawlessinsanity21
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Jun 30, 2016
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When you decide to. Your happiness is important and it comes before anyone else's happiness, because you are not responsible for anyone's happiness except your own. Remember that.
Bri22
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Jul 2, 2016
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There is not time in your life where this is not the case. However, you should not feel as though this is a chore, I know that sometimes we give not to receive but feel as though our efforts are disproportionate to what we get back. This is the point where you need to focus on what is happening in your life, whether you are happy and whether you think that you should be in the circumstances you are in and evaluate what you do to positively manipulate them to enhance your quality of life. Obviously that's easier said than done, but sometimes confiding with someone in your surroundings about how you're feel (whether it is neglected or in need of love etc.) it is surprising what an extensive impact it can have. Ultimately, making others happy shouldn't be tiresome although it understandably can be sometimes. Balance is key.
miraculousMist88
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Jul 7, 2016
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You get to stop making everyone else happy when you realize your own importance and start valuing yourself more.
You need to be there for yourself first and then be there for other people. You're more important and you need to take care of yourself. :)
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