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What's the best way to overcome an argument with your family?

Profile: GoodbyeToAWorld
GoodbyeToAWorld on Apr 5, 2016
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The best way to overcome an argument is to take some time off. Cooling off is key for the solution. That's the best way. Try not to say anything hurtful that would affect you later.
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Profile: intelligentPalm37
intelligentPalm37 on Jun 28, 2016
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Talk it out. Call the other person by name, stay calm and nice. If you find yourself very angry, count to 10 to help calm down.
Profile: missyy
missyy on Jul 26, 2016
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It depends whether it's about something small or big. If it's something small I usually wait it out everyone gets time to think about it and realise each other's point of views and after a while everyone has a better attitude towards each other. If it's something big I do the same thing, but then talk it out with my family.
Profile: BeyondWishes30
BeyondWishes30 on Aug 2, 2016
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Two things. You either take some time off and go to your room or you ask them what did you do wrong. This clears the air, and also any misunderstandings. Lastly, count 1-10 but backwards and try to stay calm.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on May 23, 2017
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Take some time off the argument if at all possible to get some perspective. Often, this gives you some fresh perspective and also helps all the emotions calm down. Also, get outside perspectives from people who are not involved in the fight. Then try and reach a compromise. If this is not possible, something has to change.
Profile: TiredMoonBeam8
TiredMoonBeam8 on Aug 1, 2017
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Listen. It's not about who is right and who is wrong. Put emotions to the side - Try and be as factual as possible. When you listen - you are showing that you love them and that you care about how they feel. If everyone talked at the same time about themselves - you wouldn't get anywhere. Then when you feel comfortable enough - speak your feelings as factually as possible so they can better understand your heart and where you are coming from. Listening is a language of love.
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