What's the best way to listen attentively to what your family has to say in all situations without becoming frustrated?
Jessietwina
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Jan 14, 2015
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Ask to be excused for a minute then come back when you have calmed down and if they don't let you then try counting to 5.
littlebambi
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Apr 8, 2015
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Be calm and know that what they say might upset you. The more calm and open you are the more likely they'll be the same. Before getting angry push yourself to consider what they're saying and think about it objectively before emotionally.
MendingByMuisc2
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May 1, 2015
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For me, I sit quietly and truly look for the the meaning behind their words. Understand that they mean well, they are, after all, you're family, and even if the stress you out, they only want to help. Let them speak their piece before you respond to them. This opens up some healthy communication!
BlackButterfly98
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May 9, 2015
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Guess the best way is to keep repeating to yourself that they only want the best for you. Even though most of us think that they don't get what we go through, they have been through the age we are at right now and even though they have a hard time showing it, they sort of do get it. So yeah, guess you just have to listen with the thought that they understand and that they are just trying to help..
Anonymous
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May 16, 2015
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Spending time is most important thing. Having lunch or dinner, sharing and exchanging each others thought.
NeonRainBow92
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May 22, 2015
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Take a deep breath and say "okay, I understand". As hard as it might be, they are only trying to help, I use to be like that, got frustrated with my parents all the time, then I just sit back and listen without getting mad
BluSparkles
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Jun 30, 2015
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You sit back and fully listen and ask yourself that if I were in his position what would I want. Would I want someone to interrupt or get mad at me while I'm talking? if not, you listen.
Patcares
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Sep 29, 2015
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If I have to just listen attentively to what someone has to say, regardless if is family or not, without the possibility of engaging into a conversation where my ideas, thoughts and feelings are taking into account, I will become frustrated every time, I am a human and I matter. So to avoid frustration try to engage in conversations, you matter too have a voice ( respecting and loving voice)
Anonymous
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Jan 4, 2016
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You have to remember that listening and agreeing are two different things. When my mother talks to me and I disagree, I try to remember to respect her opinion, and when she is done speaking, offer my own politely. If you get frustrated they are less likely to respect what you have to say
Anonymous
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Apr 11, 2016
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Per me, I'd say the best way is to just listen to them. Let them take their time and make their point. It may so happen their perspective won't concur with yours (and that's okay). In such a case, place your views before then too. Discussion, acceptance and sometimes, polite refusal - I think, that's the deal.
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