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What's the best way to get over a family member's death ?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 30, 2014
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The adage "time heals all wounds" is wise. It will take time. In the meantime, expect to feel grief, sadness, loneliness, and a hole in your heart that will never fully go away. Stay busy, get the company and support of friends, family, and loved ones. Cherish the memory of your deceased loved one.
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Profile: RachxTheLight
RachxTheLight on Nov 30, 2014
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In my personal experience, the best way to get over a family member's death is to remember them as not being gone, but as how they were. Remembering how they were and the good memories will help you realize they had a good life overall and will not be forgotten due to their great accomplishments during their lifetime.
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Anonymous on Dec 1, 2014
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It is so important to take the time to grieve, to shed a tear and remember all the positive moments you had with them. Personally I find spending time with friends and family and talking about them helps considerably - remember them together.
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Anonymous on Dec 2, 2014
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Crying and also talking with people about this family member. Let them live in your heart. Never forget them.
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kristinshere on Dec 6, 2014
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remember all the good times and remember that they would not want you to be sad their at peace:) they want you to be to
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Anonymous on Dec 15, 2014
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I believe that a family members death can only be gotten over with, With time. That's the best way to heal you emotionally.
Profile: FeatherIce25
FeatherIce25 on Apr 3, 2015
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time will heal everything. In the beginning try to stay away from the triggers. After sometime it will work
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Anonymous on Apr 16, 2015
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Think about the pain they may or may not have been experiencing before there death. Say they were terribly ill and needed the pain to stop, or say it was sudden. Just remember they are in a better place.
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amorvincitomnia143 on Apr 24, 2015
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KNow that it is okay to mourn, and that there are stages of grief. Surround yourself with as much support as you can, whether it be other family members or close friends. Try to focus on the positive impact they've had on your life, and take the time you need to fully heal. Let yourself feel the pain, but try not to linger in it too long.
Profile: Pumpkin74
Pumpkin74 on May 20, 2015
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We all know time heals all wounds but sometimes it just doesn't seem enough. First, allow yourself to grieve. Give yourself time to heal and don't put a limit on when you should "be over it." Plan a time to think about the person and remember them as you loved them. Make a photo album or collage that you can hang in your house or create something you could leave on their grave that would reflect the relationship you had. Having said that, if you feel your depression is severe or your daily life is affected, reach out and talk to someone. Sometimes antidepressants can help, but only your doctor can tell you if that is an option for you.
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