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What do I do if my father thinks I hate him even after I told him I don't?

Profile: PuckisaDuck
PuckisaDuck on May 31, 2018
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I'd say you show him signs of gratitude, and just be nice to him. Have you tried asking him why he thinks so? I think it's best to just talk it out.
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Anonymous on Jun 1, 2018
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I'm sorry that this is happening... ♡ Maybe trying to show him by surprising him or doing things for him... I know it's not easy, but you've got this. Try to show him by your actions that you love him. Try to do everything he asked you too.
Profile: Sken24
Sken24 on Jun 2, 2018
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If your father still thinks you hate him after being told otherwise, then it is best to let him have his own thoughts. You are not responsible for changing other people's idea's and thoughts, it is solely their responsibility for how they feel and think.
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Anonymous on Jun 11, 2018
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It’s the little things that count. Spend quality time with your father and make an effort. Relationships aren’t repaired overnight.
Profile: GuardianKnight
GuardianKnight on Jun 14, 2018
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Sometimes words are not enough for people, try to show it to him through actions. They can be samll such as sending him a good morning text, or bigger by preparing dinner or spending time with him. People can need reassurement that they aren't bad, we all make mistakes but we amend them.
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Anonymous on Jun 21, 2018
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Show it to him. Take care for him. He has has done so many things for you. It is time for you to show, don't just tell him. Appreciate his small petty things. Be thankful to everything he does for you and every single thing he did for you. Spend more time with him. Celebrate small things in life with him. I know you love him but show him. He deserves this!
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Anonymous on Jun 24, 2018
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You are the expert on you. I know it's hard, there was a time in life I thought a family member of mine did too, and getting the message across to that family member effectively varies per person.
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Anonymous on Jun 27, 2018
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Many people's insecurities come from their own. I would recommend sitting down with him and possibly a trained professional and trying to work this issue out
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Anonymous on Jun 27, 2018
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Offer to go somewhere with him or do something with him. Until you show that you don’t hate him, he’ll never know
Profile: Brighter19
Brighter19 on Jun 29, 2018
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I believe in exertion . Telling him is just a talk .Exert to show him how much love you have for your father
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