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My parents don't listen to me, what should I do?

Profile: Eyesoh
Eyesoh on Aug 7, 2016
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When my parents don't listen to me I go to my journal and write about my feelings. When I read my own words back to myself I look at what the core of my problem is and think of a way to simplify it. I also go and talk to a friend about it.
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Anonymous on Aug 7, 2016
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Catch their attention in a way that they will understand. Maybe they're just confused or don't know what your asking them.
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Anonymous on Aug 11, 2016
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You should ask them for reasons for not listening to you and to wait until they finish the whole explanation and not interrupt them in between. You should always try and understand their point of view also.
Profile: princesspenny19
princesspenny19 on Aug 12, 2016
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Try to write them a letter, and put it somewhere they'll see. Or even text them. Sometimes putting what you feel or want to say into words (writing it down) helps and you could have a better speech, more appealing to those you want to talk to. They'll have time to read it and then talk to you! Hope this helps! 🌸🌟
Profile: Vixey
Vixey on Aug 12, 2016
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Tell them that you've noticed they hardly pay attention to what you say, ask them personally for a talk and when they seem to lose interest, change the subject, or talk to someone else.. Point it out out loud.
Profile: ComfortingForest
ComfortingForest on Aug 19, 2016
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Try sitting down with them and having an adult conversation. Your parents will realize that you are trying to be mature and talk to them about something that is important to you, so they are more likely to listen.
Profile: MissMonMon
MissMonMon on Aug 20, 2016
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Listen to them. Maybe they are trying to make a point that is important that you are missing. It may feel like they don't understand but they do have a lot of experience. Try sitting down with them calmly, speaking quietly and just let them explain and hopefully they will allow you to talk as well.
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Anonymous on Aug 20, 2016
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Try to talk to them with a letter. Write a letter saying how you feel and leave it in their bedroom.
Profile: allnaturalUnicorns70
allnaturalUnicorns70 on Aug 25, 2016
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If you mean you don't think they much value what you say, it might be worth considering when and how you share your ideas with them.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 27, 2016
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Have to tried telling them that you need their time and attention to listen to something important you have to say?
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