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My parents don't listen to me, what should I do?

Profile: Cutetortoise02
Cutetortoise02 on Apr 28, 2017
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Confront them and explain how you feel about them and there not seeming to listen. Figure out what is on your mind tell them and listen to their response also see if there is something on their mind as well.
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Profile: crispNight40
crispNight40 on May 12, 2017
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I felt for a long time that my parents didn't listen to me. It took most of my childhood for me to learn to talk to my parents like actual people, and as with most other circumstances in life, the best way to be understood is to first be understanding. Parents are worried sick about their children for most of their lives, and while some parents are better than others at managing this worry, that is the place that most of any perceived unfairness comes from. When I learned to listen to my parents (not to obey, necessarily, but just to listen,) I started to realize that they really did love me, and while they may get tired or frustrated or simply misunderstand me at times, almost everything they did came from a place of love. If you are patient and open with your parents, even when it seems like they are not listening to you or respecting you, slowly they will begin to treat you like the adult you are becoming. In a lot of ways, that's what becoming an adult is, I think.
Profile: MarkoKovacevic
MarkoKovacevic on Jun 16, 2017
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It looks like you are currently facing some family problems. I think you should sit down with your parents and try to talk them in a polite way. That can help you solve every secret problems they may be hiding from you.
Profile: CaringRainfall93
CaringRainfall93 on Jul 1, 2017
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I know sometimes things can be hard but, you have to push through as strongly as you can. You should talk to your parents about this and tell them how you feel it will give you a more open relationship. Sometimes parents don't realize what damage they could potentially be causing their kids.0
Profile: sierralocket
sierralocket on Jul 2, 2017
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In my experience, you should write them a letter. A respectful, calm (but serious) toned letter. It should thoroughly explain what you are feeling and why you have frustration with them, but also be concise and respectful enough for your parents to respond to it in a rational, reasonable fashion. When you speak, it's very easy to get animated and upset. But when the words are on paper your parents have no choice but to listen to all you have to say before they can respond. Make sure you end it on a positive, loving note, too. Remind them you still love them despite the problems that are occurring.
Profile: jodiejasmine
jodiejasmine on Jul 6, 2017
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Parents not listening can be very frustrating and stressful. Try to explain yourself politely and clearly.
Profile: VeinsofEden
VeinsofEden on Jul 13, 2017
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Sit them down and open up. It's the best way a child can do, break their wall down and show their vulnerability to their parents so they can see a side of you so emotional. It won't be so easy, but baby steps will get you through it!
Profile: glisteningWriting22
glisteningWriting22 on Jul 13, 2017
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I think you should really tell them how you feel, maybe sit them down and talk! If that doesn't work ask them for a therapist or try talking to someone you know would listen to you.
Profile: enchantingRose58
enchantingRose58 on Aug 17, 2017
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Keep trying in a calm and sensible manner, do not lose your temper and try again if they don't listen the first or second time until you are heard but stay calm
Profile: Laura56
Laura56 on Nov 21, 2017
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As silly as this may sound, ask them to listen to you. Ask your parents if they have some time to talk. If they insist on being busy, arrange a time when you are all free. Sit and talk to them about how you're feeling. Perhaps they will even give you an explanation as to why they aren't listening etc.
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