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My mother hates me and I don't know why. What should I do?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 11, 2016
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I understand that you think she feels this way, perhaps it is only the way you see it. Please could you elaborate, why do you think she feels this way? Can you think of anything your mother has done that express her love for you recently?
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 13, 2016
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Hate is a very strong word. Perhaps she is having a hard time connecting with you, and?or the other way around? Have you tried having an open conversation with her on this matter?
Profile: HonestLee
HonestLee on Mar 18, 2016
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I am not sure why you feel your mother hates you. I think it would be good to talk to her. Sometimes when I think people hate me, they are just stressed about other parts of their life. The only one with that answer is your mom though. If you don't think you can talk to her face to face, try writing her a letter.
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Anonymous on Mar 19, 2016
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If you think there is a problem with her and you want to solve it, choose a good moment and talk to her. Ask your mother why is she upset with you, be calm and open and try to understand his point. Tell your mother you want to have a normal relationship with her, everybody wants to be loved, eventually she will understand and things will be better.
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Anonymous on Mar 20, 2016
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your mother has given you birth ! a life ! a mother can never hate her kids . May be she is angry with you over something. Just try to talk to her and simplify things. If you are living today , its only because of your mother , never forget that ! she needs your love too as much as you need hers ! just go and hug her and ask her what is it that is bothering her . Hope this helps ! God bless you !
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Anonymous on Mar 26, 2016
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Talk to her, it is very unlikely a mother will hate her child, they more often re overprotective and worried for the children and it can be taken as too much.
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Cryaotic24 on Mar 30, 2016
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has anything happened between you two? Try talking it out with her if she is willing. See if she has a reason and if you can help in any way. I'm sure she doesn't hate you at all, it might just seen that way.
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Anonymous on Apr 3, 2016
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You have to decide what's best for you. Try to talk to her and work it out, family counseling, or maybe cut her out if your life.
Profile: GoodbyeToAWorld
GoodbyeToAWorld on Apr 5, 2016
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You should talk to her. It may seem that she hates you, but if she did, why would she continue with you? Maybe you guys went in a bad start.
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Anonymous on Apr 7, 2016
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Although it may be difficult try to sit down and speak to each other if you don't feel that can be done have an impartial person help out incase things get heated. The only way to find out is by talking to each other a really good heart to heart and air things out
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