My dad likes to touch me. Is this sexual abuse?
Amy890
on
Nov 19, 2017
...read more
Depends in what kind of way and what parts of your body. If his touch makes you feel uncomfortable and he knows it but he does it anyway it's definitely abuse. You should try to talk to him or at least to other members of your family, teachers, authorities about this situation. You don't have to accept any kind of touch which makes you feel uncomfortable.
Anonymous
on
Nov 30, 2017
...read more
If it involves the touching of intimate areas and/or it makes you uncomfortable and you have asked him to stop but he does not, then it is sexual abuse. It is advisable to confront him if that has not been done already or otherwise speak to a trusted adult such as a family member or professional, like a social worker.
Anonymous
on
Dec 6, 2017
...read more
I think you need to talk a professional about this, I dont think I am qualified to talk about this but yes to me it sounds inappropriate
bleuvide
on
Dec 14, 2017
...read more
Yes it is. It is way more difficult to aknowledge the abuse and live through it when it's a member of the family being the abuser. If your father takes advantage of his situation of 'power' towards you in a sexual way, it is definitely abuse.
Junar
on
Dec 16, 2017
...read more
That depends on what the purposes that touch and depends on your feeling when he touches you. If you're feeling uncomfortable with his touch then it might be a sexual abuse, but if you think it's a safe touch for example just touching your hair.
Anonymous
on
Jan 6, 2018
...read more
It depends on where he touches you and how you feel in return/ Do you feel violated? Do you feel like he touches you somewhere he shouldn't?
Anonymous
on
Jan 11, 2018
...read more
as long as it is not sexually, or in places you feel uncomfortable in, not really. speak to him and see, if he still continues inappropriately, please do not hesitate to report him.
Anonymous
on
Jan 13, 2018
...read more
normal phsyical affection can be a great thing, but physical contact that makes you feel uncomfortable is probably not ok. If you think the touching is abusive, then you should get professional help from a teacher, police, doctor/nurse, or someone who can help intervene. You deserve respect.
Chimmysmallz
on
Jan 18, 2018
...read more
To answer your question properly, I would first like to explain what sexual abuse is. Sexual abuse is a situation in which an individual is touched either on their genitalia, between their thighs, their breast or made to touch the other individual in the same places without the individual fully willing to participate in such. Sexual abuse can occur with any member of the family,friends, neighbours and/or strangers. If a person gets touched inappropriately, the person being touched is never at fault. So whenever people say "you dress sexually or you were always giving him signs that you want it" these are just wrong.
Back to your question. If you feel within yourself that the way your father is touching you is wrong, tell him that you don't like it. Most people that abuse others say things like "you like it, you are just pretending" or "if you tell anyone I will kill you" or "if you tell your mom, she wouldn't believe you".
I do not know how he touches you but sometimes, the way someone touched you even if it is a minor touch of the fingers can trigger warning feeling in you. Talk to a trusted objective adult about this and remember, even if he is actually sexually abusing you, it is not your fault. It never will be.
X
Anonymous
on
Jan 18, 2018
...read more
If the nature of this touching is unwanted by you or makes you feel uncomfortable in any way, you have the right to tell social services and move somewhere that you feel safe.
My boyfriend or girlfriend is embarrassed of me. What should I do?
502 Answers
What age is too young to leave home?
468 Answers
When do i get to stop making everyone else happy?
440 Answers
I want to see a therapist. How do I tell my parents?
416 Answers
What do I do if my father thinks I hate him even after I told him I don't?
409 Answers
Why am I not good enough for my parents?
406 Answers