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My dad likes to touch me. Is this sexual abuse?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Apr 5, 2017
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As we are always told as kids there are two types of touches, good touch and bad touch. We need to know how to differentiate between both. Some people show their affection by touching, some people are just generally touchy so we need understand the motive but should not rule out bad intention all together.
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Profile: LetsTalkandChill
LetsTalkandChill on Apr 16, 2017
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As we were taught during our childhood, do not let anyone touch you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable. If something doesn't feel right, there probably is something wrong with the situation. Is it something you can share with your mother to get insight? There's always help from professionals that you can seek to get support if you don't feel comfortable sharing. But remember, there is someone who is gonna get you the help you need - you just need to seek out!
Profile: wonder22
wonder22 on Apr 19, 2017
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Not unless he's touching you sexually. Hugging & ect. isn't sexual, but if it is, call the sexual abuse hotline.
Profile: tjb28
tjb28 on Jul 26, 2017
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Depending on where he's touching you and without you saying yes if he is touching you down below (private parts) Then yes that is sexual abuse and you may have to tell someone
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Aug 10, 2017
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If he likes to touch you in inappropriate areas, it is considered sexual. If it feels sexual and awkward to you, and sometimes you don't like it, you shouldn't pretend to ignore it because that isn't okay either. Cuddling and sleeping with your child is okay till a certain age. After that it can become much more sexual than beforehand. I'd talk with your mom about this (if you can). She might have some insight.
Profile: Sinlua
Sinlua on Nov 9, 2017
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If he is touching you in areas that make you feel uncomfortable and they are areas that should not be touched. Then it might be sexual abuse. Please talk with another guardian about this! Don’t stay quiet.
Profile: creativePalm12
creativePalm12 on Nov 15, 2017
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Unfortunately, based on the description you've give in your question, it would be impossible to give a conclusive and responsible answer to your question. "My dad likes to touch me" could mean so many things, so to draw any conclusions just on that would be dangerous. If you were able to talk to someone privately and maybe explain his actions more, you might be able to get a better idea of what's going on.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 15, 2017
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No sweetheart, that's molestation and could lead into rape. Make some calls because you don't need to be in that surrounding.
Profile: cherishedLight73
cherishedLight73 on Nov 17, 2017
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YES! if you are being touched in any way that you do not want to be that is inappropriate then yes! If you have a disability that prevents you from performing certain person tasks that hes helping you with then no. Bit if it goes beyond performing said task and makes you uncomfortable report him!
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 17, 2017
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It depends on where he likes to touch you. If he touches you on shoulder, hand etc then it is sign of affection in most cultures. But if he likes to touch you on your private parts then it is sexual abuse
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