My dad likes to touch me. Is this sexual abuse?

It depends. Where is he touching you? If it is in the bathing suit area, then yes, that is abuse. If it is in a more innocuous area, such as the arms for example, then it could still be abuse depending on why your dad is doing it. Does he seem aroused? Is it part of a fetish? If so, it may be abuse. If the purpose is not for arousal, then there is one more question to ask. Have you told him this makes you uncomfortable and he continues to do it? In this case, it may be harassment. If the touching is on an innocent body part, is not for the purpose of arousal, and does not make you uncomfortable then everything is ok!

It sounds like it's possible, without knowing more about the context or type of touching it's hard to say. But if you feel uncomfortable with anything- anything at all- that's your system telling you that something is wrong, and needs to change. So I would definitely pay attention to that feeling, and know that it's completely valid to feel that way. You know you. Your feelings are important. If you can, try to write down some of what's going on and talk to yourself in a letter. What would you say? What would you say to a good friend who was feeling the same way you are? These are good ways to assess what's going on and what you can do.

Sexual abuse is anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. If your dad is touching you in a sexual way he is crossing your boundaries. Although he is your dad he is not entitled in any way to touch you in places that make you uncomfortable. This is not something any person should go through alone. If you have a friend or family member you trust to disclose this information with they can help you navigate through your healing process. There are many resources that can provide you support throughout this time. Please, seek local resources to begin your journey to healing.

If this is not consensual it is sexual abuse. It is illegal and if you are negatively influenced by these actions then it it not ok. It should never happen and you must be careful around him because it is not ok what he is doing to you. If you are uncomfortable or upset about your father touching you and if it is not consensual then I assure you, it most definitely sexual abuse, sexual harassment and depending on you're circumstances, may be rape. And it is also incestual. Please stay safe and be careful. Report these criminal actions if you feel the need too.

Sexual abuse does not have to involve sex, penetration, or nudity. Any time an adult or older person touches or handles a minor inappropriately, even if the minor doesn't seem to notice or mind, is problematic. Hugging, "playing," rubbing, lap-sitting, and any other physical contact might be considered abusive. Remember, sexual abuse need not involve touch at all—a minor can be sexually abused with words only, for example, or with a camera. It’s up to parents, family members, and friends to keep an eye out for the "grooming" behaviors in the adults who come into contact with a their minors.

Well, it can be or it can be not. It all depends on how he touches you? And how you feel after he touches you? Do you feel disgusted and uncomfortable? Do you think this is not appropriate behavior of him? If you feel a bit of fear of being around of him because of his touches. Then it is sexual abuse. But if you are comfortable then it's not. How does he behaves when he touches you? Is it normal or weird? And also the timings matter too? Do he touches you when you are alone if yes then you are in problem.

It's really hard to answer your question buddy like it can be a normal dad to child touch, or on the darker side, it can be a sexual lustful touch. being here we can't really decide what it is, it is something you will have to figure out self. Look for signs like how strong his grab is, are there any particular areas where he touches regularly, and how he is while he touches you, is normal or is he sort of taking pleasure out of it. As much as I would want to give you a clear answer, I can't. It's something you'll have to look for your own. If you need to talk about it, you are welcome to, I will be glad to hear you out.

Sexual abuse can be considered as any act in which one individual tries to pressure someone into acts sexual in nature without the other person's consent or with someone below the age of consent. Kissing, fondling, digital penetration can come under can fit into the category of sexual abuse. Abuse has many connotations if its an area that is deliberately touched making you uncomfortable and scared then it most definitely it sexual abuse and also harassment. You might want to think what your boundaries are. What makes you comfortable and what makes you comfortable? You may also want to think what is the emotional and social impact of my dad treating me in this way? It is an offence and you can to do something about it in order for it to stop. As difficult and as uncomfortable as this is to talk about telling someone (e.g. an older adult you trust) may provide you with a chance to be listened to. There may be thoughts going through your mind about whether you will be believed or whether your dad will pose more of a danger if you share. This is a serious topic and you have the power to put an end to it. Sharing about uncomfortable experiences takes time and courage. RAINN is an example of an organizations that provides help for those who have experienced trauma. If wanting to communicate in an anonymous online environment please do not hesitate to communicate with one of our listeners or therapists on our site. We are here to listen and help you to express yourself!

Depending on where he is touching you at. Is he touching you in way you dislike? If so then yes, he is abusing his power of being bigger into getting what he wants, have you told your mom about this? I'm sorry if I am asking so many questions I just want to help is all. Try distancing yourself from his area. Have you told any of your other family members or friends about this. Maybe speak to your counselor the problem could be bigger than what it is right now. I would say talk to someone about it, get there opinion.

Generally, if anyone touches you and you feel very uncomfortable as a result, it is abuse. With a father in question, it might be important to also understand in what places he touches and if his intentions are malicious. But regardless of his intentions, if the way he touched you is making you question if it is sexual abuse then it is clearly making you uncomfortable. The next step you can take is to tell someone you trust, or if you're feeling brave enough then actually confront him about it and make it clear that you do not like being touched.