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My brother and sister are always mean to me, what can I do about it?

Profile: IntuitiveDrops
IntuitiveDrops on Jun 17, 2015
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Maybe there are family dynamics in your home that favor you in front of your parents and your sibling are jealous. However, you are not at fault for what they do to you so the best thing would be to try to defend yourself in an effective way. You could ask them about their feelings about you and why they do that, but don´t expect openness on their part and simply stand up for your rights. You have a right to be treated with respect and dignity.
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Profile: allnaturalUnicorns44
allnaturalUnicorns44 on Jun 20, 2016
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You could talk to them and let them know how you are feeling. If that doesn't work maybe you could talk to your parents about it. It's important to not retaliate. Respond to their meanness with kindness
Profile: guyinasuit
guyinasuit on Nov 18, 2014
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I think the first thing to do would be to talk to them about it. If they dont listen then maybe it's time to speak to your parents, because it's important that you start to feel better!
Profile: RunnyHoney
RunnyHoney on Jun 17, 2015
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Tell your parents on them
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 22, 2015
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Talk to them about how that makes you feel. If they continue then tell a well trusted elder or adult.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 27, 2015
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They are your brother and sister, they will understand you if you talk to them and tell them how you are feeling, talk to them privately and make sure you don't fight with them, but if they continue, then you should tell a well trusted adult.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 16, 2016
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You could try talking to them about how you feel about it as sometimes they don't realize eat they say can be hurtful.
Profile: Flawlessinsanity21
Flawlessinsanity21 on Jun 6, 2016
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You can talk to your parents about it or another trusted adult. You can even take it up with your siblings. Tell them how you're feeling and what's going on and what you'd like to see different.
Profile: Greatlistener87
Greatlistener87 on Sep 13, 2016
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Speak to your parents about it, tell them how you feel and also maybe they can explain to u as to why your siblings behave that way.
Profile: HayAwake221
HayAwake221 on Aug 14, 2018
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Sibling relationship is the weirdest one in the world. Sometimes, living in such close contact with them, you can become blind to some things. You end up ignoring the nice things and picking up on only the bad. So take a moment and actually look at your situation.
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