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My brother and sister are always mean to me, what can I do about it?

Profile: Kinshiplove
Kinshiplove on Oct 30, 2017
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Have you tried to explain to them how they make you feel? You could try writing down your feelings and then give them the paper if you're not able to verbally tell them yourself. Maybe they don't understand how it makes you feel. You could tell a parent or guardian, a trusted friend or another family member, just so you can get it off your chest. Talking to someone helps.
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Profile: Lachielistens1
Lachielistens1 on Oct 24, 2017
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From personal experience, your siblings aren't specifically being mean to you to just be mean. They are your family and we as family love each other even if we don't always show it. Be sure to make sure you are not giving them unkindness in return and just talk to them, explaining your point of view and asking them to stop being so nasty to you. If they don't listen, look to your parents for help.
Profile: WonderlandDream3
WonderlandDream3 on Oct 13, 2014
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Try talking to them about how their actions affect you, calmy explain to them why some of the things they do/say hurt you.
Profile: AdviceBuddy
AdviceBuddy on Oct 21, 2014
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Talking to your parents helps. Try to talk to your siblings too explain your situation and your feelings
Profile: GabrielNico
GabrielNico on Oct 22, 2014
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Believe in yourself. Know that life is full of ups and downs. You don't need to prove anything to them, but still continue living with your morals and show it to them. Besides, if can no longer tolerate them, maybe it is better talking to your parents
Profile: Uniqueg
Uniqueg on Oct 23, 2014
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Maybe you can talk to your parents about it, or have a meeting with your siblings and tell them how you feel and what kind of relationship you want with them!
Profile: Helper6754
Helper6754 on Oct 29, 2014
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you can ask them to stop also if you are still living with your parents you could tell them and ask them to make them stop
Profile: QuinnBrendan
QuinnBrendan on Oct 29, 2014
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You can talk to them about it, or if you don't feel save doing that, speak to your parents or a counselor.
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Talk to them!(you can try to talk with someone you trust) tell them that you feel bad because they are mean with you.
Profile: akireleon
akireleon on Nov 11, 2014
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Remember to always be humble. I am not sure in what degree their meanness is, but I am quite sure that if you will stay humble, it'll pass soon. They will get tired of being mean to you eventually.
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