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My boyfriend or girlfriend is embarrassed of me. What should I do?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 11, 2015
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First would be best to simply talk to him or her about it and if their reasons are shallow then it's best to surround yourself by more positive people and find a significant other that is proud to have you.
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Profile: Precept
Precept on Nov 11, 2015
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It appears that your significant other and you may have some differences. Differences can be a healthy part of a relationship. However, both parties need to be in clear and mature communication about what the others expectations are. How comfortable do you feel on a scale of one to ten sitting down with your significant other and discussing what your concerns are?
Profile: musicalDew34
musicalDew34 on Nov 11, 2015
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Leave them immediately... u shouldnt be with someone whoe doesnt value your worth
Profile: MelissaT1970
MelissaT1970 on Nov 11, 2015
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Ask yourself if that is really the kind of relationship you want to be in.Have an open, honest discussion with your boyfriend and discuss exactly what the problem is.
Profile: colorfulSunshine01
colorfulSunshine01 on Nov 11, 2015
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honestly if im not embarrassed of my self then no one should be embarrassed of me i found out that most people reflect what they feel on other people so if that is their reaction towards you then most likely its a refection of them selves be happy with who you are and if they really love you then they will love you all in all ... hope this helps you it really related to me.
Profile: FabulousPotatoFreak007
FabulousPotatoFreak007 on Nov 11, 2015
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Personally, I would have just said end it; then I thought that's not actually solving anything. I would advise you to talk to them. Ask what's making them so uncomfortable. Don't hide it or run away, then might make things worse. Be upfront and confront. Don't be too upfront because that could come off as snobby. Try to deal with the situation nicely. Ask them when it started. Don't be afraid to tell them how this is making you feel. Hope this helped.
Profile: dreamwithmelovers31
dreamwithmelovers31 on Nov 12, 2015
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leave their arse! your partner should never be ashamed or embarrased of you. you deserve to be loved
Profile: SydneyLouise
SydneyLouise on Nov 12, 2015
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If your boyfriend or girlfriend is embarrassed of you, your relationship probably isn't the healthiest. I think you should talk to them and try and communicate what is going on for them to feel that way.
Profile: blackZebra81
blackZebra81 on Nov 12, 2015
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If your partner is embarrassed of you it may be best to evaluate whether or not the relationship is worth staying in. Chances are if they fi nd you embarrassing than that means they do not like you as they thought. While this can be hard to cope with, it is best you resolve it now rather than later.
Profile: Davidblaine441
Davidblaine441 on Nov 12, 2015
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find a new partner, you should feel free to be yourself with your significant other, and if they feel embarrassed maybe they're not the right fit for you, take a step back to evaluate your relationship, dont jump to any conclusions. often change can be a good thing, but it should never come at the cost of you being you! there are other fish in the sea, so why not go for a swim?
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