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My boyfriend or girlfriend is embarrassed of me. What should I do?

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Anonymous on Jun 27, 2019
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You should confront them and tell them that you love yourself and you won't change for them.Your are perfect the way you are.Tell them that you are with them not because they want to be, but because you also want to be. Show that you are not embarrassed of them and they shouldn't be as well. Tell them you love them for who they are and not for their looks,but if they can't do the same ,it makes you uncomfortable and if they love them will all their heart they should not be embarrassed of who you are,but first love yourself.
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lucywormie on May 21, 2020
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I don’t control relationships but nobody deserves this! you’re worth more than being with somebody who cant give you the full love you deserve. Talk to them and if they’re still acting hurtful then maybe let them go, everyone deserves better so you deserve your chance too. Express how they’re making you feel to them but don’t change whatever embarrasses them to suit them because you’re better being yourself. What affects them about you is their problem not yours. People love you but sometimes it’s not the best so put your health first and do what you thinks better for you
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Anonymous on Jul 25, 2020
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Its sad to know that. However, you may ask them what they feel embarrassed about and get their opinions on what they think of you as a person and if it seems valid or justified to you, ask them what you need to do for them to not feel so only if it doesn’t affect your mental well-being. Share your thoughts and address them, explain to them what's going on in your mind due to their actions and how they are making you feel. Only way to make them know your emotions and know the reason for their behaviour is through communication. It is tough to be under appreciated by your partner and them not being proud to be around you. Make things clearer about what they really want or think about the relationship as this may cause further problems and also dont put yourself down due to their actions, value yourself enough and talk it out. Know when to walk away if they seem unreasonable.
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Anonymous on Jan 16, 2021
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Talk to your partner of what is 'embarrassing' and come to a method or conclusion that both agree on. Talking to each other can help you to talk about your emotions and build trust to each other which is a necessity in a relationship. It can also show the true side of the partners and makes you understand their personality as well. If you are considering in seeking a long term relationship then it's best to talk about it as it will be a burden to hide the thing that's embarrassing just so the partner can feel happy about it and not think about your feelings.
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Anonymous on Jan 21, 2021
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If your boyfriend or girlfriend is embarrassed of you then they're not for you, right? What can you do to fix this issue? The issue is probably with them or they are sensing some kind of insecurity from you. People tend to target others when they sense you're vulnerable or insecure. It isn't always the case, but sometimes it can be. Relatabley, You should find a new boyfriend or girlfriend, but that's your own choice since I'm not able to give advice. When you learn to love yourself and you understand and KNOW who you are, you will be able to accept certain things easier. It's a part of life and we're all on a growth path in life to learn more about ourselves and to love ourselves. Then what other people think won't bother you as much. But say, you were in public and other people witnessed something that Is unordinary, then I would understand why this would concern you. Best of luck to you!
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edenhereee on Nov 7, 2015
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You should be yourself and if they don't like what you daily life is, then they aren't the one for you.
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TARY on Nov 7, 2015
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I am sure you are just perfect the way you are, no one should be outrightly embarrassed of you. However, it is also true that we are not perfect people, we might have done things that are way out of hand that might have caused others to feel a certain way about us. Communication is key, you should find out exactly what is causing that negative feeling of embarrassment, how should both parties be united together for the purpose of solving that problem and then looking forward from there onwards. No turning back.
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Anonymous on Nov 7, 2015
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Talk with him/her why he/she is embarrassed and ask what you do that makes him/her feel like this. Also ask: what could you do to change this situation
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Anonymous on Nov 7, 2015
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You should ask them what makes them embarrassed of you and ask them what do you suppose to do. You can also tell them about your feeling so together can understand to each other
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Anonymous on Nov 7, 2015
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Talk it out and find out why. Try to work together to fix the problem and make sure to look at future goals together.
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