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My boyfriend or girlfriend is embarrassed of me. What should I do?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Dec 6, 2017
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Talk to him/her about it. Why do they feel so? Tell them it is unfair for you. Ask him, does he not accept you for who you are?
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Profile: KongfuPanda
KongfuPanda on Dec 7, 2017
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Talk to him. Try to understand why he/she is feeling that way. It could be him/her, it could be you. But communication is the key.
Profile: allnaturalUnicorns70
allnaturalUnicorns70 on Dec 8, 2017
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If you value someone's company, and that person feels embarrassed of you, I'd wonder why you still wanted to keep that person's company? Don't you deserve to be with someone who is proud to know you?
Profile: annpaints
annpaints on Dec 23, 2017
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A loving relationship entails of mutual support and care. If your boyfriend or girlfriend is not willing to accept you for who you are, then that doesn't sound like a very healthy relationship! Understanding what they are uncomfortable with might help you decide whether it is good for you emotionally to stay in this relationship. Both sides will require work and communication to make sure that your affection is not put in the wrong place! Don't forget that you are always worthy of love. x
Profile: briaannasaurus
briaannasaurus on Dec 27, 2017
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Talk to them about why they're embarrassed of you. Are they actually embarrassed or are you assuming they are? If they've verbally expressed that you're embarrassing to them, you should ask why. If it's something that's a big part of you, you should really question whether the relationship is worth changing yourself for. Change is always good but not when you do it out of hope that someone won't leave you for it.
Profile: wontonlover18
wontonlover18 on Jan 17, 2018
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If he or she is embarrassed of you, then just end the relationship. I had this kind of thing, where my ex could no tell his friends, or I could not tell my friends we were dating. I came to ask if he is embarrassed of me, but he keeps on denying it. But I knew inside that he was embarrassed of me. So yeah, just end the relationship. No couples should be embarrassed of each other.
Profile: plantwoman
plantwoman on Feb 8, 2018
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Talk to them about why they are embarrassed of you. That is the best thing that you can do. Though is someone is embarrassed of you, you might want to reevaluate the relationship.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 8, 2018
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Get rid of them. Everyone deserves someone who loves you for who you are, as cliche as this sounds its true. I learned the hard way. There are thousands of people out there who would be proud instead of embarrassed of you, guaranteed. We just have to love ourselves enough to go find it.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Feb 11, 2018
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Your significant other should never be embarrassed of you for any reason. Find someone who shows you off.
Profile: thewolfstays
thewolfstays on Feb 20, 2018
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Talk to him/her , tell about your feelings and fear. It's better to know the problem in person then you can have a solution
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