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My boyfriend or girlfriend is ashamed of me. What should I do?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 14, 2015
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it's always important to discuss things that are going on in a relationship. Communication is key. Ask questions about why does your significant other feel ashamed of you.
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Profile: WolvenEars90
WolvenEars90 on Nov 14, 2015
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You should really sit down with your partner and talk about how they make you feel. How do you make them ashamed of you? What can you do to make things better? You won't know anything unless you both talk as a couple.
Profile: talking2country
talking2country on Nov 14, 2015
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I would suggest you talk about it with him or her and figure out why they feel that way about you..?
Profile: Chris91
Chris91 on Nov 14, 2015
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Feeling ashamed to be someone's boy- or girlfriend is not the way you should feel in a relationship. The question you might ask him or her is why he/she feels ashamed for you. Is she ashamed due to your lifestyle, is it your job or what is it making her feel that way ? Searching the dialogue with your partner might be the first step to clear up a tension or misunderstanding and improving your relationship
Profile: TheonlyVivianx
TheonlyVivianx on Nov 14, 2015
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Be proud of who you are regardless of whatever anyone else thinks of you. Hold your head up high because your an amazing person and they are lucky to have you!
Profile: gloriousOasis81
gloriousOasis81 on Nov 14, 2015
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If they are ashamed of you then they were never meant for you. They don't deserve you. All you can do is forget about them.
Profile: amazingArrow48
amazingArrow48 on Nov 14, 2015
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I can't imagine how you must feel. From a personal experience, don't blame yourself. It messes with your confidence. Ask him why and see if there's anything you want to improve on yourself.
Profile: crispSun13
crispSun13 on Nov 14, 2015
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You're boyfriend is ashamed of you? Ask him many questions about why he is ashamed of you? Ask him what you can do better
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 14, 2015
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You deserve to be appreciated. Talk to them about it, but remember that you're not an embarassment. Even if they say that you are, don't take it straight to heart. What others say about you isn't always true! If they truly love you, they'll accept you for who you are.
Profile: LuwUrZelf
LuwUrZelf on Nov 14, 2015
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Find out the reason why is he/she ashamed of you. Can it be your imagination? If there is nothing to do then maybe you should find someone else in your life who is not ashamed of you.
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