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My boyfriend or girlfriend is ashamed of me. What should I do?

Profile: hcrriblekids17
hcrriblekids17 on Nov 13, 2015
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Ask them why, for starters. Then try to talk through it, and if in the end they're still ashamed of you I think you may want to break up with them. It's not healthy to be in a relationship with someone who's ashamed of being with you.
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Profile: caringHero37
caringHero37 on Nov 13, 2015
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why would they be ashamed of you everyone is special and if she is dating you clearly they found something special in you.
Profile: creativeEmbrace90
creativeEmbrace90 on Nov 13, 2015
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Do you know why they're ashamed? Communicate with them and find out what it is that makes them feel that way about you. Do you feel as if its for a genuine reason? Then do this, decide whether or not you actually want to change that aspect that ashamed them. Whatever you decide to do next deserves second priority.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 13, 2015
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People should like you for who you are, your options may be live in shame and guilt or get over her.
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Anonymous on Nov 13, 2015
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With this, it seems like your partner is ashamed of you. In any sense, have you talked to your partner regarding this concern?
Profile: joyousNature19
joyousNature19 on Nov 13, 2015
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Break up with them no one should feel that way with one another life to short to be unhappy stay strong
Profile: bubblingLove76
bubblingLove76 on Nov 13, 2015
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Find out if that is true or not. You may be projecting feelings of low self worth onto someone else.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 13, 2015
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I would find a new boyfriend or girlfriend that isn't ashamed of you and appreciates you and treats you like you are the most special person on Earth!
Profile: Manifestation
Manifestation on Nov 13, 2015
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Do you think that you merit this shame? If so, what repairs need to be made to find a common ground with your partner?
Profile: raspberrylemonade
raspberrylemonade on Nov 14, 2015
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If someone you love is ever ashamed of you, I would suggest considering finding a new lover. It may be hard to even think of leaving someone you love dearly, but love is a special form that means you shall not judge, criticize, or feel ashamed of you no matter what. Love is a beautiful thing, and for someone to be ashamed of you, that is not love, and I am sorry that they feel the need to be ashamed of you.
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