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My boyfriend or girlfriend is ashamed of me. What should I do?

Profile: ashleypayne
ashleypayne on Nov 11, 2015
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If somebody loves you, they should not be ashamed of you. They should be greatdul to have you around. If they're ashamed just say "Hey well I'm not!"
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Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 11, 2015
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if he/she is ashamed of you,that person doesn't like you.simple.leave it as past and find new goals,new friends.probably someday you'll find new love
Profile: CassidyS1
CassidyS1 on Nov 11, 2015
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Tell yourself that you are amazing. Anyone would be lucky to have you. Then talk to them about being ashamed of you. If they continue to be ashamed of you then end the relationship because you do not need the negativity.
Profile: joyfulCandy52
joyfulCandy52 on Nov 11, 2015
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I would talk to them about it. Ask them what is that they are ashamed of. If it seems like something you cannot change or are not willing to change, you may be better off ending the relationship. A partner wouldn't be ashamed of someone that they truly loved, in my opinion.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 11, 2015
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I would consider thinking if that is the best relationship for you because if someone cares for you they should not be ashamed of you in any way.
Profile: lovelyLove58
lovelyLove58 on Nov 11, 2015
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Obviously if you feel someone is ashamed of you, then they don't deserve you. You deserve live and respect and to know your worth.
Profile: Mike615
Mike615 on Nov 11, 2015
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If you feel that someone is ashamed of you, I believe the first thing you should do is tell them how you feel, and then talk with your partner to determine what act, or activity are causing your partner to feel ashamed.
Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Nov 11, 2015
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You need to break up with them because you deserve to be with someone who is proud to be with you.
Profile: enjoyyourself
enjoyyourself on Nov 11, 2015
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You should never let someone who is ashamed of you make you dislike yourself. Love yourself first and foremost. Communication is key, talk to him or her and discuss the reasoning behind the shame. Only then will you know which way to go. Xoxo -Hailey
Profile: Leslienessa
Leslienessa on Nov 11, 2015
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You should talk to him/her about it, since noone should be ashamed of the other one in a relationship.
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