My boyfriend or girlfriend is ashamed of me. What should I do?
LucyJua
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Nov 7, 2015
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You should probably talk to him/ her seriously about the relationship. I don't believe you could be happy with each other in such situation. And staying in a relationship where you're constantly unhappy makes no sense. Also, just hoping that the person would change "one day" is naive. He should either change his behaviour or walk away.
Anonymous
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Nov 7, 2015
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Talk to the person. Find out why the person feels that way. Think about future goalie together and see if you are both on the same page. Very important for a relationship to last.
beautifulFaith43
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Nov 8, 2015
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Ask them what is that embrassed them about you. If you do not want to change that aspect of yourself then do not explain to them that you like that quality about yourself.
Greatlistener87
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Nov 8, 2015
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Talk to your boyfriend/girlfriend on why are he/she is ashamed of you and let them know how you feel about it. Discuss the matter through. I believe an honest discussion can go a long way in relationships.
Anonymous
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Nov 8, 2015
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So what can you do to change that. You have to know you are worthy and beautiful.. Every oerson is beautiful.
TheYesMan
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Nov 8, 2015
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Sit down and talk to them. what are they ashamed of? The key is to NOT argue about it.
Sometimes they may be ashamed of something you do that makes other people uncomfortable. In this case, its not hard to avoid doing it. Sometimes, however, they may be ashamed of a part of who you are, and its a good time to sit down and have a good talk because this isn't something a strong relationship needs. Yes, the issues can very easily be resolved - if you can remain calm while doing so.
Emma265
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Nov 8, 2015
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First of all, talk to them because it's possible that you have an assumption that they or ashamed of you, even if they aren't. Then if they are actually ashamed of you then I think they shouldn't be with you because they are not appreciating you for who you are. Ultimately you deserve somebody who appreciates you for who you are.
Anonymous
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Nov 8, 2015
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I think you should ask them what you did that makes them ashamed, and maybe try to fix it if you can!
blazingwolf
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Nov 9, 2015
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Look within yourself and look if you are really to be ashamed of. If not, explain to him/her what you think, because he/she must accept who you are too. If you did something wrong, apologize and work on yourself to not do that again. Dont forget that nobody is perfect, neither him/her. Just settle this in a cool way and give yourselves time. Good luck :)
gracefulBeauty85
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Nov 11, 2015
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Well if my boyfriend or girlfriend is ashamed of me then he or she does not deserve me, therefore I would definitely leave him or her.
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