I've been estranged from my family member for a while and would like to work on our relationship now. How can I do that?

I've always believed that no matter how families become estranged or distant from each other, they are still a family. It just takes time, perseverance and a lot of love to work on reconnecting with your family. First thing that one should do is to reflect internally on your intention to reconnect with your family. Be sure that it is what you really wanted to do and will follow through with it no matter how difficult it may be. Next is settling any disputes between you and your family. If there is something that you have done, humbly ask for forgiveness. It may not be accepted immediately but when they see that you are sincere with your words by showing it through actions, it will be settled. It may take long but take heart and do not be discouraged. What if they are the ones who have done me wrong? Go to your family and forgive them for what they have done wrong. Show them you love and care about them through actions. Welcome them back to your life like you would welcome someone whom you have not seen for so long. What if we just became distant and no conflicts happened? Then you can easily reconnect with your family through actions. Give them a call and how are they doing. Tell them you miss them and you love them very much. Your family would definitely be so delighted to hear from you again. If not so, do not be discouraged but inquire if you have done something wrong and ask for forgiveness. Reconnecting can be a tedious effort but always remember that when you follow through with your actions and persevere, it will bring good results.

It is all started with ourself..Examine what we have done and work on it. If u need to ask forgiveness do it no matter who done wrong. One needs to be humble and I believe from there anything can be refresh again.

Open up to them more. Communication is key. Dont be afraid to talk to them, im sure they want to listen to you and start a relationship with you.

You can start by reaching out and letting them know you want to reconnect. If they know what your intentions are they might be more open to working on things openly.

Maybe you could reach out to them and see if they want to renew a relationship, and hopefully you guys can resolve your issues with time.

Every situation is different, but reaching out to them with a short message, letter or call might be a good way to start. Let them know that you'd like to work on your relationship with them, and understand that it might be a long road and that rushing things or getting into too much too fast might be detrimental.

Try talking to them a little, over an innocuous subject like a tv show, or a popular sport, and try to work in more and more conversation topics.

initiate contact with the said family member, try not to make them feel guilty and take a positive a relaxed approach

I would say you can start off by writing them a letter and express to them how you feel... You can send them your personal information through this letter asking them if they want to get a hold of you to talk some more or to agree on a get together.. They know how to reach out to you

I think you can try to reestablish your connection with your family member by contacting them and apologising for your past mistakes. If they still won't let you back in, maybe you can try to show them that you've changed and now you're ready to mend your broken relationship with them :)