Is it normal to constantly think about your future from the pressure of your family?
Anonymous
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Dec 1, 2015
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It is very normal. Family is a big part of our life and we can't help to feel pressurised by their expectation.
GoldenEars77
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Jan 4, 2016
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Mindfulness helps you go home to the present. And every time you go there and recognize a condition of happiness that you have, happiness comes.
Anonymous
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Jan 25, 2016
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Families always want the best for their children. They pressure you because they are trying to support you, and you thinking about it means you are trying to do your best for them. It's okay to think about your future, but try not to stress out about it too much. Do your best!
erinyes
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Mar 14, 2016
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It's absolutely normal. For most people, whether they are aware of this connection or not, your family is your rock. They're the foundation of your various perceptions & aspirations about yourself. Sometimes this can be a double-edged sword. Too much pressure from family can hinder your personal growth and exploration. And sometimes family doesn't have all the best intentions for you because they don't know you as much as you know yourself! I think it varies with every situation. Pressure from family (Or anyone close & important to you) can be good if it comes from a place of good intentions and most importantly, a place of love.
Greatlistener87
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Aug 22, 2016
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When something is told too much to you, it definitely tends to get to your head. Always remember its really easy to loose yourself rather then finding your self. So stand firm to your foundations and what you believe in.
LeahL
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Jun 19, 2017
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It is, your family always wants the best for you and sometimes they may not notice that they are putting so much pressure on you but they just want to make sure that you know what to do with your life so that they know that they can relax because you made a good life for yourself
Peppens
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Jan 30, 2018
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Definitely, some people more than others. I was always pressured to look into going to college and getting a dream job that pays well, but in the end, it is about what you want to do with your life, what you would enjoy as a job. Your life is all about you, and that is all that matters. Do what you love, find enjoyment and get paid for what you love to do. Not everything out there that is fun, requires a college degree. What could also help is keeping yourself occupied with hobbies and things you enjoy, like hiking or going for a walk, or heck even hanging out with friends. Hope this helps!
DelightfullyCalm
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May 24, 2021
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It is totally normal for your parents to constantly remind you about your future. It's their job to make sure you can support yourself one day. But if you ever feel overwhelmed or dressed out about it, there is nothing wrong with opening a line of communication to reassure them that you have a handle on your future and relieve some stress by talking about it. Your parents are trying to communicate their worry about you, and unfortunately, it feels pressuring to receive that constant reminder from them. But, yes, it is totally normal for them to be constantly reminding you. It shows that they care about you, your well-being, and that you will be able to take care of yourself when they are no longer there do so,
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