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Is it normal feeling that they hate me?

Profile: Anonymous
Anonymous on Mar 21, 2016
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I've had this before because you are probably passive aggressive. You feel like people are angry at you all the time because of their change of behavior towards you.
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Profile: h3idi
h3idi on Sep 27, 2016
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yes your feelings are valid. try to talk to them and have an honest conversation about how you feel.
Profile: DuaneYupDuane68
DuaneYupDuane68 on Sep 4, 2017
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It's normal to sometimes feel self conscious about how others might feel about us. I think it's healthy to be concerned about others feelings toward us. However, hate is a very strong word. Ask yourself: do they really hate me? Most times the answer is no. If you want to improve relationships with certain people communication is the key. Discuss your differences. You may not agree, but reaching a point of mutual respect is perhaps more important.
Profile: KaptainKurt1
KaptainKurt1 on Apr 23, 2018
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Yes, I see it a lot in my school. "She hates me, they hate me", etc. I see it a toooooon. The thing to remember is: time can change how people think. Now, whoever they may be, I doubt they fully hate you (bullies, family, friends, etc.) And given time, I think you'll learn why they act the way they do towards you
Profile: MichaelClaypool1
MichaelClaypool1 on Nov 20, 2018
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It depends on who hates you, It all depends. I mean if it's your friends why would they hate you? I don't see why people would hate you. I don't fully know you so I can't say anything. I mean I've had that feeling before. I thought everyone hated me at school till I got to know people and talk to them. You would never know until you ask them and tell them to speak truthfully. I mean its simple as that. I may not seem much. But I've had problems with people hating me until I got to know them.
Profile: FrostyMonkey
FrostyMonkey on Aug 31, 2020
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Feeling like they hate you is perfectly normal and valid. I have felt this feeling often, and I know my friends have felt this as well. I felt like others hated me when I was excluded from social gatherings, was criticized by my friends and family, and when I had no one to talk to. My feeling of others hated me was often coupled with feelings of loneliness, isolation, anxiety, and low self esteem. From my experience, I learned that meditation and reaching out to others who care was helpful for me. Recognizing how you are feeling, and why, is a great start to understanding yourself.
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